CONTEST TIME: Share With Us The Situation You Passed Through And The Process That Took Place To Help You Overcome Them by @osiola.

hello everyone.
May our hard work and prayers never go waist and i will like to thank @steem-ghana and @juzkid for giving us this marvelous contest.

Share With Us The Situation You Passed Through And The Process That Took Place To Help You Overcome Them

At first i was just leaving a normal life, i was not dating and I promise my self that any girl I date first may God let it lead both of us to marriage and when you are leaving a single life without dating you always have a peace of Mind and because I was not dating and almost all my colleagues where dating and some where having children and they where making fun of me and they where calling me names that my manhood is not work and they taught I fear girl not knowing I have been praying to god everyday to blessed me with a good wife or girl.

And my friends where the ones putting pressure on me to also date a girl and they made everyone to know that I can’t stand in front a girl to talk her and not knowing I really know exactly of what I am doing and as days keep on going and it was on Friday, I and my Friday we were going town to buy food and on our way going we saw a nice pretty girl at the market her name was Aisha and I told me friend to stop that I wanted to have a vibe a with this nice girl standing alone and I was able to approach her and I told her give me her number that I will called her tonight after prayers them we get to know each other well and because it was first time of approaching a girl I was saying this in mind that if I proposed to this girl and she say no any where I see her i have to run and hide 😂 not knowing if you proposed to a girl and she said no is normal and after we were done with the prayer I called her and she picked Up and I told was interested in her and i wanted both of us to be comes couples and she said yes and I was happy on that and didn’t even sleep on that day.

Because it was my first time of dating a girl i was treating her girl like a queen and one thing I like about her was she was respecting a lot and anything I asked her to do she will do and I never wanted to see her to be complaining and anything she asked me to do or buy for her I will find a ways to do it for and even if I don’t have money I have to go and borrow from my friends and later pay my Friend back and we leaving our live like a marriage couple and some people taught we were married and we dated for two years and not knowing I was not the only guys she was seeing.

It got to a time that she was acting wired and I was asking her whether I have offered her and she was saying i didn’t do anything to her and later I found out that she was dating someone else and when i found out That I have to called the relationship off between us and I told her to move on with her life since that was what she wanted she was trying to explain to me and i said my no is my no. And after I break up with her I didn’t eat for almost two day and I was thinking to the extent that I was growing Len and my parents was asking whether I was sick so that they will take me to the hospital for treatment and I told them I was okay.
I taught broken heart was not real not knowing it was real and the reason why it pains me alot was I gave my heart and she was playing with it and after all we have been through and a girl I was planning to married in the future betrayed me and since them I don’t trust any girl again.

It very hard to get her off my head was the hardest decisions and the same God I prayed to get me a Good wife or girl friend was the same God i prayed to get this girl off my head and even up to now I still they remember about this girl and by them we resume school and they very day we opened school was the same they i went to school just to forget about her and I thank I was able to forget her and move on with my life and breaking heart is real it can happen to anyone and I prayed to God that I will never meet a girl of Aisha type in my life again because of what happened I am still single and I always feel like not dating but is a must for me to get married one day and in future I want to marry a decent girl and I have moved on with my life after my first heart break and thank you God for letting me to forget her.

I will like to invite @rubilu123 @chenty @tymestwo77 to participate in this contest.