Participation: My Impossible Love

I want to talk about my love for a restaurant that failed before it even started. My girlfriend never said no, but she didn't give a positive sign either.

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I thought my friend's suggestion to me was straightforward, "If she doesn't enjoy your company and isn't ready for a relationship with you, move on." That was If she's interested in me, I'll be into her by now. "It looks like she's not into me, so I shouldn't have wasted my time.".

I used to go to that restaurant regularly during lunchtime, and my mind is still stressed, and my heart always skipped a beat when I saw her enter alone and sit beside me at her regular table during lunch hours.

I loved her dress sense, and I was quite taken aback by her deep black eyes and ponytail. In fact, he liked everything about her but didn't get any positive signals from her.

But what surprised me was that day it was something else, because she didn't even look at me, not even a casual glance. I thought she was not interested in me, or maybe it was something else, because she didn't even look at me, not even a casual glance. I thought she was not interested in me. But I didn't give up yet. I thought she would come back tomorrow and clear things up.

So when a guy says he's not ready for a relationship, he's a fool or a lowly person, but when a girl says she's not interested in a relationship, she's strong-willed, independent, and outstanding. I was that fool in that case, I guess.

Why does love matter only to girls? I am disappointed with my friend, but she should understand. By the way, I was still waiting for her, but then something happened that made me forget about my love, or was that infatuation?

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I think I was friend zoned

  
I was feeling disgusted and sick for not being able to tell her how I felt about her. I was a student at a management school and found this cute-looking girl in my second year.

My problem was how to tell her! I tried everything I could to find a solution but was unsuccessful. Let me confess first, I thought I should laugh about it and tell her the reality like I just explained it to you.

I'd talked to her a few times but couldn't muster the courage to tell her—you know what I mean! Maybe she could find it funny or appreciate my honesty. I simply wanted to tell her before it was too late. But that was not to be.

She was from a rich family and very honest with me, but even her frankness was not good enough for me to say what I wanted to tell her. However, my dream ended when I called her on the phone in the lobby of her hostel and invited her for a cup of tea.

Okay, I agree; I was having a nervous breakdown and felt the need to be corrected on a deeper level by telling her everything. But she shattered all my dreams with just one sentence, "Sorry, I am busy with a friend, and will not be able to meet you this evening."

I had been talking to her for almost a year, and she made her intention clear by talking in a way that made me believe that she was not interested in me. I had put everything on hold just to be with her, and then she told me that she already had a boyfriend.

I am lucky she refused indirectly; otherwise, I would not have met my wife, who is as beautiful and more intelligent and understanding.

I didn't know what to do when she refused to say whether she ever wanted to be my girlfriend. She said this was a simple friendship and nothing else.

So all she said, "See you at the beach tomorrow.". That meant she did not want to meet me that evening.

Let me tell you from the beginning. I had been talking to her for almost a year, and she made her intentions clear by talking in a way that made me believe that she was interested in me. I had put everything on hold just to be with her, and then she told me after one year that she already had a boyfriend.

What, she called me all the way from my hostel to this restaurant to tell me this? She said she saw a good friend in me, not a lover. Now I have this feeling, but I'm not sure what it was. She could have refused right from the start. Maybe she needed me to be more romantic, but I zoomed off.

Maybe she thought I was a nice friend who would spend a lot of my money, and time, on her. That notwithstanding, now I'm happily married, so it opened a gate for me. But what about my friend who asked me, "I wonder how you summoned the courage to propose to your soulmate, who you are happily married to now?"

So nice of you, ma'am. I am thankful to you that you refused. But so what? I have a prettier wife now.