#CLUB100 FreeWrite Post: Stop Using Facebook - Toxicity At Its Finest | Start Using Steemit Instead

in Steemit Philippines3 years ago (edited)

Elections here in the Philippines is approaching. Although it is just a few months from now, the candidates from Presidency down to the Local Government Units are already starting to do their campaign. Along with it, they have also started mud-slinging each other candidates and it rouses a certain level of toxicity in their posts that are shared in Facebook most especially. It is good that all my network on Twitter is purely crypto topics. Though you can still see what's the trending from the sides, and it's all about the elections - you just have the option just to ignore it. An option however, that is impossible to have in Facebook.

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I was actually able to notice that all my stress recently just came from Facebook feed that I have been seeing when I scroll down and MOST of the chat groups I belong to - that now I have started to ignore.

I might be using the messenger only and just communicate with my contacts there for very important matters. You will see me now most often on Telegram and now discord. It is good that the Ambassadors are now doing an amazing job in Facebook Group that we have. For my sanity's sake although I am a very patient and flexible person, I will just focus my time, energy and skills to the new responsibility that was given to me. Help me God!

While scrolling down my feed and just actually ignoring the hate speech of the die-hard supporters running for the presidency, I have noticed a former colleague of mine who has a lot of accumulated debts from other people and also from me that he/she just posted a selfie four hours ago and yet the photo has gained 100+ likes. Contrary when I share a post that is helpful and beneficial to everyone, and me... a person who is very helpful (even financially) can hardly get any support and appreciation from my former colleagues from different companies I have worked with. Yes, I am just a human feeling this way though I am not quite sure if it's just me being childish or what not.

I really guess that I haven't created much impact to them but yes, I must not care at all. I am so sorry if I blurted it out here and you might think this Steemit Philippines Moderator has an emotional imbalance. I'd rather tell everyone what I currently feel than pretend that I am not coz that makes me a human-being. Imperfections, flaws, weaknesses should all be subject for a change to be a better you. But I assure you, I am trying to control myself to handle everything professionally.

Also a great thing, to know what are the negative things that we have so that we'll be able to turn it out to be our greatest strengths once we overcome this challenge of making ourselves better.

With this, I will just order my favorite milk-tea to ease and pacify my mind.

There you go, while waiting for my favorite Wintermelon Milk-Tea to arrive, I'll be continuing my campaign to use Steemit instead of Facebook.

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A screenshot of the order details.

photo_2021-11-01_10-17-40.jpgNow enjoying my ultra-favorite wintermelon milk-tea 1-Liter while creating this blog.

As I was saying, the turn of events here on steemit has encouraged a lot of members to be more active. I am actually inviting a lot of people to join just to get-away with the toxicity of what Facebook can put through our lives. Have you recently seen the Facebook whistle-blower? I am pretty sure this is actually true based on the analysis of what the lady says.

It was in the height of the news when Facebook and Instagram have shut down for several hours. Most people, of course, checked Google about it and turn to other social media like Twitter to know what happened. Thus, I also found out about this. I have already heard of it but of course just turned a blind-eye to this issue before until I've realized that I do have a social responsibility that I must do and let people get aware.

A lot of people may just ignore me at first but I am sure that somehow they will soon realize this cause I am diligently pursuing! To stop using facebook and just turn to Steemit. Any alternative social media will be great!

Here is the breaking news that was actually shared by The Guardian several hours ago.

Facebook whistleblower Frances Haugen calls for urgent external regulation

You may also check google and do a research by yourself. Please, as always, DYOR. Don't take the word of someone just like that but this will extremely serve as a back-up of my claims.

As far as using facebook for more than a decade, it has only been the source of connection through my friends and family members because of its messenger app. It is the only free site here in the Philippines that the giant Telecom networks are offering, the reason we are ought to use it.

Being active on social media makes us more connected and the result will give stronger ties to these people who matter a lot in our lives. But then, it will also give us the feeling of the lack of freedom coz all the things that we we do, these people will be able to know, unless we put change the settings of the only ones who would be able to see it. Which is I guess a form of centralization on our part and can be easily manipulated by anyone.

I would like to share too that I was really disappointed with what happened to my facebook account several years ago as it was also blocked by them just because I have posted about cryptocurrency topics on my wall and several groups. Thank God they have given my access back but this event has made me extremely weary in posting things that I really wanted to post and think I might get banned again.

I would like to share also that just a few days ago, one of our Steemit-Philippines Moderator / Leader in Mindanao @long8888 has also suffered this indemnification of facebook. The reason that he would need to create another account. I really got sad when I found out that all of his friends and the memories from his photos will be gone if his account access will not be given back to him. A thing that is quite really difficult to add his friends back using his newly-created account. The reason this form of disgust was strengthened for me to continue this post that was created last Wednesday of this previous week.

Amidst the hype now about Facebook changing its name to Meta, it is perceived by almost everyone that this Social Media giant will just get away with their issues just like that!

Do your own research by checking Google now like this:

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It was like a notification from the Facebook app a few days ago that they will be changing its name to Meta but the app won't change its features or whatsoever!

My two-cents:

If these Social Media giants just needs to change its name to get away with their flaws, then it's really not a good choice to be there for a long time. God knows what might happen in the future.

When the whistle-blower admitted that Facebook promotes hate and toxicity to gain a lot of attention and interaction from members, then I would really look for alternatives from then on.

Steemit is the best!

It has emerged from the ashes after its known issue over a year ago but then here it is, and really gaining traction to a lot of people. Soon, mass adoption is inevitable.

I maybe a leader in a conflicting blockchain, but I will give the credit of being the best crypto blogging platform to Steemit.

I love Steemit and will be the platform for my personal life from then on.

Final words:

I will start sharing infographics of the use of steemit at least twice a week on my facebook and my twitter account.

I was actually triumphant in inviting my friends and family members here and now in the process of training them to become successful content-creators here.

Your Steemit Philippines Moderator / Leader here from Luzon.

@Fycee

I just joined #club100 now and powered up all of my rewards gained. Upgraded from #club5050 to #club100image.png

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 3 years ago 

This is a compelling point of view. If not only with messenger which most of us are using in work or in personal connection, friends and families, I have been long gone with the use of fb. Lately I had a hard time opening my account because it said it was locked up. It took me 2 days to retrieve it, but why? Something is not right. We have options and am glad Steemit is here which is much better because I don't have to deal with so many noises.

You did great having milk tea to cool down. Hehehe...

Club100 is my goal too.
Thanks for sharing.

 3 years ago 

Facebook is the only free site we have and some video platforms via our local networks. Though there are some cheap rate offers nowadays, I am glad we can browse sites more outside the free ones given along from the promotions. I know how it feels if these social media sites give us a hard time accessing our account so it is really needed to proliferate Steemit now.

 3 years ago 

The things you mentioned here are all new to me. It seems like I've been away for the longest time. It makes me think I'm a cave man.

Nevermind those people who just neglect and ignore you and your post. Know that you have tremendously influenced a lot of people in the cryptoverse, one of them is me. So cheer up! 😊🥰

 3 years ago 

Grabeh sa cave-man uy! Hahaha. Oh yes, I don't really mind them na since I just feel sorry for them parang big deal na sa kanila yung likes likes nilang nakukuha sa pag selfie selfie nila (haha bitter lang) pero oo kakasura kasi na sobrang proud nila hakot sila likes tapos yung mga pinangkain naman nila eh utang tapos hindi makapagbayad dun sa inutang sakin.!

Thanks for acknowledging that achievement of mine which is my ultimate goal din naman. To encourage them and be consistent as well. Good luck on your Board Exams. Something sobrang self-fulfilling pag alam mong licensed ka - na hindi ko nagawa! Go girl!

Hi @fycee,

I prefer to upvote users who continually powerup their earnings and continually upvote others (preferably like-minded users) with their increasing Steem Power. I am glad you are in that category. You will receive my upvotes regularly as long as you maintain this status.

 3 years ago 

Hello there Devann.

My apologies for the late response. Though I have already seen a reply and a support from you after a few hours from the time of your reply, I still took time to respond to all comments. Powering up is needed to support my fellow community members doing the same thing. The best for of support to be the best example I can show as one of the leaders of the community. Thank you for dropping by.

 3 years ago 
 3 years ago 

did you share this post to FB? ano kaya gawin nila if you share it there hehe

 3 years ago 

Humuhugot pa ako ng lakas ng loob hahaha sa twitter pa lang eh.

 3 years ago 

This is what I want!

 3 years ago 

hehehe thank you po nay.

 3 years ago 

Welcome all the time

 3 years ago 

Yes I agree, kung pwede lang sana #steemit nalang gamitin natin, siguro dapat mag add na ng chat feature dito, I would rather stay here and share photos and stories kikita pa ako hehe.

By the way mahal pala ng wintermelon.

 3 years ago 

hahaha 1-Liter naman po kasi yan kuya! Yes sana may chat feature na per Community noh? I'm sure mag eevolve din ito. Pwede na gawan ng app kung sino man developer satin sa Pinas. Ganern.

 3 years ago 

Let' us go to the #club100

 3 years ago 

Relate much po ako sa inyo, ge repost ko ang post ni ate @me2selah ang about sa steemit para maraming makakaalam at maraming pwedi matulungan na kumita sa panahon ng pandemic dahil marami ang nag hihirap ngayon, wala talaga ni isa nag like, pero yung mga walang kwentang post dami nag likes. Nag post din ako about sa isang earning site ko na legit din naka ilang withdraw na ako para maka tulong din sa kanila wala din pumapansin hays.

Almost 6 months din po ako hindi nag active sa Facebook, ngayon lang ulit ako bumalik nag post ng mga paninda ko sa fb, paninda nalang wala ng about sa life ko at sa aking sariling family.

Dami kasi toxic talaga sa fb kaya hindi ako nag active ng ilang buwan din. Sa messenger nalang ako palagi hihi.

Bago lang pala ako dito sa steemit I'm still exploring pa po sa site paano gamitin pero mukhang mag e enjoy ako dito mag basa basa at mag sulat.

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