Contest | "Attractive and yet Single"

Hello everyone,
It's your favorite Steemian @rakiya from Nigeria and I'm delighted to join in this contest organized by @ninapenda in this noble community today. It's a wonderful contest and I love to share my participation in it.

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Attractive and yet Single is a very powerful topic that I would like to share my opinion on by using the contest tips provided for the contest. I do hope I will be able to answer all the questions accordingly. So let's see what the tips hold for us.

🔻What are the side attractions of being single?

Being single means you do not have a man or a woman in your life. This means that there is no relationship going on in your life as a man or a woman. To be single means you don't have anyone close to you in terms of a relationship who you can share your worries with.

One of the side attractions of being single is that you don't get to bother your mind about issues in a relationship because you are not in anyone. People commit to succeed in relationships because they are heartbroken but being single will keep you off from that.

So being single is attractive because you don't have to bother about any issues associated with a relationship at all. You will be more focused on any goal you intend to achieve and you will also get your desired goal on time.

🔻Do you think a lady or a guy is the cause of their singlehood?

Yes, in most cases, the lady or the guy is the cause of their singlehood. There are lots of people today who can not stay with anyone because of their attitude. Some people hate it when people begin to interfere in their personal life and relationships as we all know involves people being committed totally to each other.

So when you see people who want to be completely free from trouble and control of their pattern, then they may end up being single since they don't want any interference.

So with the points I have made above, you will agree with me that a lady or a guy can be the cause of his or her singleness. Until you learn to tolerate one another, you may remain single for the rest of your life as a man or a woman.

🔻What should one do to get off singlehood?

To get out of singleness is very easy. One thing I recommend for both guys and ladies is that they should learn to tolerate each other. When you do so, then you will be able to get off singleness.

Also, don't be too rigid on yourself, try to associate with people around you. A lot of people are single because they find it difficult to associate with people around them. So be open and ready to mingle as a man or a woman.

Always treat those that come your way in the right manner because you never can tell, your pattern may just be a mile away.

🔻Being attractive, is it all about beauty? Justify your answer.

Being attractive is not all about beauty but to be frank, beauty plays a very important role here. I say this because before a man or a woman approaches you, what moves them is the beauty you possess.

This beauty may include your shape, appearance, dress, and even your skin color. So times, the men or women also take time to monitor you to be sure you have good character before the go-ahead to ask you out.

So in my opinion to be attractive means you should have beauty, character, and more. This is the only way to know someone truly beautiful.

I want to invite @goodybest @inspiracion @ruthjoe to join the contest also.