SEC S16W3 || “Raising boys and girls”
I think my answer is no because girls and boys are totally opposite gender and that's why they should be an implementation of equality while up bringing and raising them but exactly when we talk about same way of raising them then I think it is not something which is truly possible.
When you are going to raise boys and girls then there are different points that you should keep it in your mind;
Individuality
First of all there is a need to understand that what is individuality so everyone have their own unique nature regardless of their gender that's why most significant thing is to recognize nature strength and weakness of any gender Ether it is girl and boy and by keeping this thing in mind we should focus on their upbringing.
Gender stereotypes
We should always avoid reinforcing gender stereotypes. We should always encourage boys and girls to explore different varieties of activities and their interest which would break them from societal expectations.
Emotional development
There are different emotional development patterns in boys and girls because boys have more ability to control their emotions than girls so there is an encouragement of open communication for children so that they may express their feelings.
Physical health
Boys and girls both have different physique from each other that's why there developmental patterns also vary so we cannot imagine their developmental pattern going on at same path.
Personal space and boundaries
In up bringing of children either they are girls and boys there is a need to guide both of them about their personal space and boundaries and this thing is common in there up bringing because both could be the victim of harassment.
Education and opportunities
There should be equal opportunities for both boys and girls regarding their education and persue their personal interests and passions so this thing again is very common in their upbringing.
Good touch and bad touch
Teach your children about good touch and bad touch regardless of their genders and guide them that how much it is important for them to speak openly if they are feeling uncomfortable about any bad touch.
By keeping in consideration about all those points now you can easily understand that why not totally you can raise girls and boys in same way but still there are some common teachings for both.
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Differences will always exist, they are different sexes, what we must do is promote equality in terms of the right to be heard, respected, loved and not discriminated against.
Always orientate, because a child is easily susceptible to be manipulated because of its innocence. It is important to show understanding, affection and try as much as possible to clarify any doubts or questions that may arise.
Thank you so much for your kind response at my post has well as I agree with you that either it is a boy or a girl difference is an indication that their upbringing should be different but there could be something which could be common in their upbringing as I have explained in my post.
I agree that due to Innocence it doesn't matter every children can get harassed that's why this knowledge is very important to deliver to both genders.
Thank you so much for being here at my post I really appreciate it and love your response
Hola amigo, tienes razón, jamás vamos a criar a nuestros niños y niñas igual, hay que marcar la diferencia para evitar confundirlos
Thank you so much for your comment as well as I agree with you that we should not confused both gender with each other because both are equal but there are bringing should be in their unique and respective way
hey dear your thoughtful perspective on raising boys and girls. You've highlighted important considerations such as individuality, avoiding gender stereotypes, emotional development physical health personal boundaries education and awareness of good and bad touch. Your approach emphasizes the importance of treating each child as a unique individual while also providing them with equal opportunities and guidance. Well done
I am happy that you like my perspectives whatever I have told and explain about raising boys and girls. They should be uniqueness in your way to treat a particular gender because if everyone have different references different choices and their are a lot of differences in gender then their up bringing base should also be different and not particularly same for every time.
Hello, blessed day, that's how it is, we have to take into account the limits of each one and teach them the pros and cons of taking care of themselves about individuality, gender, their emotional and social development, about their physical health and their environment, there is a lot. to discern on this topic always respecting, greetings and blessings.
I agree with you that raising boys and girls mean that according to their particular gender you should limit them according to your need and you should teach them about crossing cons of taking care of themselves and when I am saying that you should limit children then it doesn't mean that you should apply different restrictions on your children but if there is a requirement and if there is any restriction for their welfare then you can do it and with this you can also guide your children so without your restriction they may learn to stay away from a particular thing
Very blessed day, it is a pleasure to greet you and I am happy for your visit and I am pleased with your comment and that you agree with me, because that is how teaching is equal for both and a color is not going to identify its gender, what we have to do is teach it the pro and con and from there they will learn to select what makes them happy in their life and we parents are here to support them as always, Blessings, a hug.
I am very happy that you have my post as well as I agree with you that when you are giving manners and different teachings to any gender then there should be equality but way of teaching then should be different.
Thank you so much for wishing a lot of blessings to me
Thanks to you, happy and blessed day, I am glad that you agree, this is how raising children should be the same as long as you guide and direct them to take care of themselves. Blessings.
Blessings to you too
Amen and blessed day.
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Hello friend
You highlighted how the male and female children differ on one way or the other and therefore the raising of the duo is quite difficult you stressed some vital points to consider such as the individual involved, gender stereotype, the emotions of the the person and that's just a bit of your very interesting entry. I enjoyed your entry and success in the challenge my dear friend
Hlo dear
I am happy to see your detail comment at my post as well as I am happy that you understood some vital points that I have explained which we should all keep in our mind while up bringing boys and girls.
Thank you so much for wishing me a lot of success in this challenge I also wish same for you
Pleasures my dear friend and see you soon. In your next beautiful article.
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