Check why you should : Avoiding action leading to the regrets situation , in life

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Hello Wonderful Steemian's ,

Worthy of note in life , is that not everyone who do laugh with you desiring your success in life living in.

Another fact is that not everyone around you wish to see you get to , achieved that anchor goal in your life .

So to avoid yourself huge regrets when the unfortunate fate likely surfaces, is to measure your distance of dealing with everybody.

Here I would relates closely on why you should avoid regrets . And all related action which might leads to regret situation.

Major fact about life situation and circumstance is that , once something is very plain . There you would get to know how to get pattern your own behavior , and lifestyle.

Truth is that you wouldn't know how to avoid all form of those actions, which capable of bringing you regret in future.

Here I would closely define regret , and what you should get to do as a person to avoid painful regret in life.

About regret : Regret is those kind of previous and or any given action , words expression , facial expression , body language and cruel type of behavior that when you can sit back to reflect . It's capable of bringing you pains , shame and worthy of repentance due to the nature of what your pass action and habits did cause you.

Thing is I just sit backed and really get examined myself if perhaps , I had any regrets before. There I get fetched my type of regrets in life most of my regrets are on procrastination . And when compared to some others experienced even some character scene in the Hollywood and our Nollywood movie and drama .

Then I concisely concluded on this two types of regret . Which are as follows :

• Private or partial regret
• Public and or open regret

As getting seen the types of regret , here I would brief on each . For you to know the kind of regrets you have so far in life .

Private or partial regret get to be those personal related action and or behavior along habit . Mainly towards those bursting things or routine you supposed had done but , due to some nature of self given excuses even flammsy excuses. You didn't do it or get to do it untimely which might cause you more effort , energy , time and or money .

In addition when reflected you might get to repent to stay out blaming self .

Factors responsible for this type of regret are as follows :

• Getting addicted to social media , busy Facebooking ,among others social media stuffs

• Procrastination , getting down desiring to do the needful later till day and time get folded.

• Addicted to games , most especially soccer and club side footballing . Can get you feel so busy up till vital moment get slipped .

• Phone - mobile phones and battery life and or faultiness . When get missed vital privilege due to a missed called , due to mobile phones issues.

• Getting too much engulfed in act of gossiping , feel too busy gossiping another not untill something terrible happened inside while outside gossiping.

• Road congestion and transportation issue , getting catched up on traffic . Just to meet less crucial aspect of an event if not even closed.

• Getting too much challenges in life , most especially financial challenge making less privy to do the needed at times.

Those are the factors responsible for the private form of regret , in life . One's truly do need be very focus and concentrative in life living in .

This aspect of regret involved those open challenges , most especially in public places . Come at first in likely argument at times not at all , instead along outright action . In which due to self defense or demonstration of civil rights , gets to flame up the situation the more . Which could result into unfortunate fates in life.

This type of regret might get happening within your family compound , place of work , market , shopping mall , cinema , bus- stop , cooperative society , even at church and social gathering , event and schools.

Factors responsible for the open kind of regret tending action , are as follows :

• Self defense
• Frustration
• Argument
• Outright fight
• Flammsy excuses over personal fault
• Gossiping
• Un tame temper
• Demonstration of civil rights aggressively
• Weakness and anxiety and fear.

Those are the main causes for public or open form of regret .

The following are ways and how you should portrait yourself or get pattern your lifestyle to avoid getting involve , in any given action which might leads to future regrets :

• Keep staying calm if necessary
• Work closely with your subconscious leading
• Believe in your conscious intuition and instinct
• Staying out from argument
• Always acknowledge your wrong before others concerned
• Try your very best to tame your high mode intensity
• Always involve others while getting a dispute or discrepant .

Reality is regret depending on the actual magnitude can do make , your hate yourself . Because of why others trusted do begun to see and relate with you . After such likely nature of tragedy action .

Some of those negative effect for heightens form of regret are as follows :

• Loss of relationship
• Activation of low self esteem
• Social dissociation
• Self pity and blame
• Health problem
• Financial dryness
• Threat to life (suicide)
• Disintegration of friendship and or cooperation
• Embarrassing situation.

Regret is very dangerous in life , because some of regrets even if you get repented . And do resolution it only get change on your side and end . Generally against other or others involved it can't it get remained same and static .

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