Hi guys, she's here again with something spectacular yet alluring. Many have their own different opinions when it comes to making a choice on the gender/sex of a child as the firstborn with reasons best known to them. I actually wanna share my views and own opinion on the subject analyzed.

Although many have a specific gender they prefer to take that position, they cannot change the fact that God decides which gender to give. Therefore, any gender that God gives is highly appreciated and accepted, he can give both male/female the ability to shoulder their responsibilities effortlessly besides we've seen instances where the females are doing very well as firstborns.

Both gender has advantages and disadvantages attached with their position as the firstborn

The females

Advantages

• Females as firstborns take the position of a second mother when the mother of the house is not available
• They assist their moms in the kitchen and run petty errands around the home
• They grow up to be the family chef capable of making delicacies for the family

Disadvantages

• Limitation when it comes to physical strength
• Unwanted pregnancy
• Early marriage
• Inability to preserve family inheritance

The males

Advantages

• Defends the family
• Carries the family name
• Preserves family inheritance
• Masculine prowess

Disadvantages

• Inability to carry out domestic chores
• Males are not economical, they tend to spend too much
• They do not understand the ethics of home management

My family firstborn is a light-skinned and beautiful being in her late teens with the name: PRECIOUS IME SYLVANUS. She resides in uyo with her family, she's a student and at the same time a teacher, she has passion for writing. The girl is an extrovert and loves putting smiles on people's faces but can be stubborn at times.

What's special about Precious is that she's a risk taker and always willing to go extra miles for anything worth the risk, the girl is funny and troublesome,can blend with others very well and very polite. She's a good cook and her family has given her a mantle for that.

Precious has actually helped her family in several ways like

• Taking care of her siblings when Mom and Dad isn't around

• She helps with domestic chores like doing laundry, washing the dishes, cleaning, mopping, dusting etc and it can be very tiring at times ehhhhnnnnn

• She serves as the family chef/cook, I think they should start paying her monthly salary 😏

• I can remember when some strangers came to the house when Mom and Dad weren't around, they claimed they were sent to come take some household items, Precious immediately alerted Dad and he came home immediately, this way she protected the family's properties

So who do you guys actually think was just introduced as the firstborn, it's me @precious123 jare. She's the chairlady of the house, someone should give me world cup biko, e no easy.

"Charity begins at home", the gender of child does not determine if he/she will be able to shoulder the responsibilities associated with the position of a firstborn. All needed is good parental training, upbringing, guidance and support. Parents should do well to:

1. Train their firstborns against the future: parents should be willing to bring their children up in peace and unity especially the firstborns as they have a greater chance to carry-on the family responsibilities

2. Lead by example: since children are more receptive to what they see, it's advisable that parent live an exemplary life as the children (firstborns especially) will toe their parents line

3. The parents should teach their children to be independent and endeavour to take risks on their own without external influence

4. God first: with God all things are possible, parents should teach their children to be put God first in all they do. Parents should nurture the believe that God who gave a male or female as the firstborn can always fortify them to carry out their tasks

We should learn to be appreciative of whatever gender God gives as the firstborn. Sincerely speaking, we can't kill ourselves for things beyond our reach, all we have to do is do our best and leave the rest to God.

   Special mention;

@ijelady
@samuel20
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