SteemAlive Presents: ProWritersHub (W6) -should the first born child of a family be male or female by @innocent/10 payout to steemalive account
Introduction
Good morning my fellow steemians in steemalive. How are guys doing?. It has been a long time that I have not been active in this platform due to some issues that i was having in this platform but I thank God that everything have been solve. My friends i have missed you guys alot and I know that you guys have missed my engagements too but I thank God that am back again. I will be happy to write this contest with you people to tell you people between the female and the male child the one that should come first in the family, I know you guys will be happy to hear from me
The female child is very important to be the first born child of the family
The female child should be the first born child of the family.
In the family almost everyone expect the male child to be the first issue of their family expecially in the Igbo land,the reason why some people expect the male child to be their first born child is because any man who did not have male child when he dies the properties of the man will be inherit by his brothers so with that they will like to expect the male child to be the first child of their family so that those properties will be inherit by the boy.
But for me I will like to expect the female child as my first born child in my family when ever I get married the reasons is because when ever you gave birth to a female child, when ever the baby grows up she will be happing her mother in house chores. When ever her mother gave birth to a new child the girl will be guiding the baby because the girls are like mothers but the male ones can not be able to help their mothers in guiding thier younger siblings they will be playing football and other plays but the girls can not leave their younger ones and went out for play
The male childs always play a lot they don't check if the house is clean or not they don't even know if they will help thier mother in house chores but girls always help their mother in house chores both washing of clothes, washing of dishes, cooking of food, sweeping the compound and so on
Advantages of females as first born child in the family
The famle once has a lot of things they contribute to the family in The olden days they said that women's school ends in kitchen that was then not now any more one of the advantages of the female child in the family are as follows:
The female once help thier mother in guilding their younger once
The female once has a lot of duties they help in the family such as washing of clothes, sweeping, cooking etc.
- In a family where the mother is not around and the female child is the oldest child in that family she will carries the responsibilities of the mother. she will cook,wash clothes, birth the younger once and some other things but the male child can not be able to do those things.
The father will not feel so busy because he has a female child that represents her wife
Disadvantages of the female child as the first born child in the family
In a family where a female is only present there is a transaction that can not work very well if a male child is not present. The male child served as as father in some cases,if the father sale's any of his property is the male child that will sign him which shows that the family supported him in saling of the property the female can not do that.
In a family where the female is only present and the father is no where to be found that family properties will be inherited by others because the female once will soon be in another family
Introduce your family first born child
The name of my family first born child is Gift she is from Obingwa L.G.A in Abia State Nigeria.
She is fair in completion and average in haight she is a teacher,she teaches in a wheel popular school new world kiddies academy ABA Abia State she got married last two years ago at Enugu state and God blessed her with a baby boy last year
How she has helped our family
She has helped our family so much I can remember when my mom went for surgery she is the one that stayed with my mom in the hospital for complete three months and my dad was going to work to gather money for hospital bill and also he helped us a lot when she got married last two years ago she bought some expensive house equipments and gave it to us when she was going into marriage.
How parents should prepare first born child in the family and the responsibilities they will face
The parents should prepare very well when ever they are expecting first born child, they should make sure that when the baby arrives they should make sure that they give the baby proper treatment and health care
And they should make sure that the responsibilities of the child when ever she grows up will be less if the child arrive they should train the baby according to the gender of the baby so that when ever he or she grows up they will never depart from their duties. If the baby is a boy they should train him according to the duties of the father and if it is a girl they should train her according to the responsibilities of the mother
Conclusion
My friends am happy to write this creative writing with you people in everything we should make sure that we show our children their duties in the family with that they can still mad a good family when ever they got married
I will like to appreciate some of my mentors for this wonderful opportunity that I have in this community
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This guy ehhhhh, your first entry is really educative, I agree with the fact that females should be the first born and I'm one. It's not easy ooo but I'm trying
Extend my greetings to Gift, I hope to meet her someday
is a lie I disagree from what you said male should only be the first issue in the family wow thanks from telling us you are the first born wow this is so so interesting huni I hop you work hard
Lol, do I look like a lazy type???
In addition, a boy can be a warrior and protect his family while a girl cannot because she is not physically strong enough.
Nice post bro. You started on time. To me I feel the first born child should be a boy 💪
Happy Sunday bro 🤝
Lolz 😁😁 really any well that is your wish you did well by going through my post thanks for engaging in my content
The firstborn child is also very important to the parents because they are the one that will be making the most memories of their lives.
yeah you have said well first born are really supper cute and I love them so so much indeed parent has a long way to make his or her child responsible and also good friend you have totally done well and Noble
Yes dear,you have given some good reasons why a male child should be born in a family and the one I like most is that if it is a female child that is been born and the father is no where to be found,the siblings of the father will have to inherit his property.
Thank you for going through my post and engaging in it
Okay dear.
to first child they are often given more chores and responsibilities, which is seen as a sign of how much they are loved. In many cultures, the first born is looked at as the "pride of the family."
I totally agree with you friend
yeah first born are really hardworking and also contribute in the growth of the family it is really good and nice friend
Yeah no doubt in many cultures the first born is the responsible for the all matters of the the family and they must prefer First children as a boy
the female once are the one that Mostly do all the house work as you have mentioned washing plate, cooking and swiping the house.
The female child is very important to be the first born child of the family. The first born child has a special role in the family and is usually treated with more love and care
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The firstborn child is also important because they are the first child that will be able to take care of their parents when they get older.
Yes you said the truth
Thanks for compliment dear brother and have a nice day keep it up stay blessed keep Steeming
That's good brother you started early keep steeming have a good day
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wow indeed this is a great and quality post fore female should not be the first born in a family because it brings more harm as you said In a family where the female is only present and the father is no where to be found that family properties will be inherited by others because the female once will soon be in another family
you have really done well friend keep it up
The first born child of a family should be male because it is considered to be a blessing. A boy can carry on the family name and bring honor to the family
Interesting... the reasons for your opinion are quite right. The female child helps her mum most in the house, although not all cos I know of one who doesn't care..😀. So everything better lies in the way the parents train their children regardless of the gender.
I enjoyed the reading friend, keep doing this.. I'll visit your blog again.
yeah this is expected from every female born in the family and I love seeing the cooking the can cook ooooo yeah also parents has a long way to play in the training of a child
It's a decision that is made for many different reasons, including tradition and the desire for a male or female heir.
All are good but it all boils down to the upbringing of the child irrespective of gender. I know some boys who work more than the girls, while some boys don't care at all.
Your thoughts is amazing but well you have said a nice thought
yeah but ine thing is certain male born normally work hard especially first born the even work more than FEMALE born in the family
With many cultures and religions, the first born is often a male. However, in some cultures, the first born is a female.
With many cultures and religions, the first born is often a male. However, in some cultures, the first born is a female.
When a family decides to have children, they have to decide whether or not they want to have a first born child. There are many factors to consider when deciding whether or not to have a first born child.