Jealousy is not the quality of a professional

It is human nature that one does not want to see anyone more capable than him. Some people are happy to see progress but some do not digest others' happiness easily. Yesterday I experienced it and thought, "Can someone stoop as low as that because they were that jealous?"

  
The fact is, jealousy is the worst quality in any person. It ultimately ruins them because it stops his progress and development, even if he is talented. As soon as jealousy comes into a person's mind, he stops seeing good. On the contrary, a capable and intelligent person sees the qualities and characteristics of others, learns from them, and does not get jealous of others.

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All right, you're in the good books of the people sitting in power, but then a time comes when it all stops working for you. A time comes when no amount of flattery or buttering helps your cause.

They say. "Every dog has his day."

Right, this was your day, but you're a professional and not a dog who survives licking bones or on leftovers. As a professional, you have to earn your reputation, which will only take you ahead.

Why are some people jealous?

Most people are worried about others's wealth, knowledge, and success. They feel if anyone got all this, why not them? They have so much money and success, so why not me? They don't think of doing anything for themselves and like to peek into the lives of others. This keeps going on in their jealous minds all the time.

Jealousy is another name for failure, in which your own importance is reduced. I suggest that the people who are jealous of you never hate them, even by mistake, because these are the people who know that you are better than them. Being jealous of someone's qualities means that the person being jealous considers the person he is jealous of to be better than himself.

If a person starts trying to develop the good qualities of all people instead of being jealous of them, then one day he will become a better person himself. Jealousy involves a feeling of desire for what another person has, but envy is usually considered negative. "It often involves resentment towards another person. Envy is a negative emotion, like a mixture of admiration and resentment, but the word does not usually indicate hostility."

Envy is a feeling of resentment, bitterness, or hostility towards someone who enjoys something that you do not." It could be a relationship apart from the usual success, achievement, specialty, social advantage, material possessions, or other things. What matters is that the other person has that thing; you want it, and that is what makes you angry with them.

Jealousy is the very form of the words "I, me, mine." When you start thinking of yourself as the best, then the happiness of others hurts you. You think that you are better than them, but that is only half true. A man is the wisest creature created by God, but jealousy makes him a fool and hurts his ego and pride. Jealousy destroys man, but can a man stop becoming jealous?

A jealous person is not satisfied with his life and does not love himself. He compares himself with others and develops mental stress. Maybe he lacked good values during his upbringing. He does not look at people below him or want to work hard. He always finds flaws in others. He does not know how to be happy with others's happiness but keeps cursing his own fate.

Life is exactly like this. A man struggles all his life in the mire of ambitions. The deeper he sinks, the higher his desires go. The funny thing is that the mire is only as deep as his feet, but when he finds others with him in different forms, he forgets that he can easily get out of that mire of ambition.

The problem arises when, despite having everything, a man thinks that he has nothing. Therefore, when he sees others having what he does not have, his ego starts burning itself in jealousy. Then he calms himself by fixating on the flaws and weaknesses of others and convincing himself that he does not deserve it.

As long as you feel incomplete from within, you will feel jealous if someone appears to have even a little more than you.

When you are very happy, do you feel jealous? No. Jealousy arises only when you are unhappy. Don't worry about jealousy. If, in every moment of life, the energy within you is full of bliss, how can jealousy exist? Instead of fighting jealousy, make your experience of life complete.

Is jealousy your nature?

Freedom will not come from giving up anything, because what is there to give up? Right now, there is no jealousy within you. It is not part of your nature. You create it from time to time. If you had created it because you wanted to, it would have been joyful for you. If anger, jealousy, and hatred give you joy, create them. But it is not so; they are not joyful experiences for you. So why have you created them? You have created them because you lack the necessary awareness.

If you want to be truly free, you must understand where the bondage is or what you have identified with. The moment you identify with something, you will come into conflict with its existence. This whole process is designed to break your identification so that you are not in conflict with your qualities.

Turn the stinking garbage of jealousy into the fragrance of cooperation.

If you can use the ugly aspects of who you are asfertilizerr, the beautiful aspects of you can blossom.

What does it mean? When you find a person too prejudiced, jealous, angry, hateful, and fearful, these are the horrible forms that a human being can avoid, but most of them cannot.

This is the logic of life. You have to understand this, both symbolically as a psychological tool and also to progress in your social and professional lives. The simple logic of your mind says that if you want to grow good flowers in the garden, put a lot of flowers in the soil, and a lot of beautiful flowers will bloom. This is logical, but existence does not depend on logic.

All the terrible forms that you have—prejudice, jealousy, anger, hatred, etc.—please see with what intensity they occur within you. If your jealousy, anger, hatred, etc. were weak, they would not harm you but help you grow, but if they get stronger or give you a burning feeling within you, they will destroy your professionalism.

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Don't try to work on the by-products. You feel incomplete because you are not happy within. A man who does not feel happy is actually sick. You may be considered fine socially and professionally because you have the backing of people sitting in the higher posts, but you are not fit as a professional in any field.

If this is not so, your well-being will be just an accident. When this accident happens, jealousy, anger, hatred, and insecurity will be a natural part of life. So do not fight with the smoke but you have to fight with the fire, the fire of jealousy.