You've just said it all. if we have an opportunity, we should first take a step back and analyze if we are fit to be a beneficiary, then take a step closer to see its benefit, then the last step to see the cost to pay... Take time to justify every opportunity critically before acceptance.

Smiles🥰. Imagine me accepting to marry a man just because I see it as an opportunity to marry not because of Love, do you know the price to pay is for a lifetime? This is a story for another day), If we take time to justify opportunities, it cannot be misleading. Forfeiting "some" opportunities at hand give us an open door for better opportunity ahead.