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in Steem4Nigeria2 years ago (edited)

Hello everyone,

I'm so happy to share my thoughts about this very contest organized by @lhorgic on the topic “Opportunity comes but once”

What is your definition of the word "Opportunity"

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Opportunity can be a situation or interest in doing something at a particular time when it comes. The word is from the Latin phrase “ob portum veniens” which means coming towards a port, referring to a favorable wind blowing ships into the harbor. Therefore an opportunity seems to be something like a wind that comes towards a person's path.

What is your thought and perspective about this statement, do you agree with this statement?
According to the statement of opportunity comes but once, my thoughts towards it is that it can be Corny and convincing at the same time if one is not careful to realize the breakthrough of it. The statement stating it only comes but one means that if that moment arrived and it's not been utilized properly it will be hard again to see such an opportunity or may even take a longer-time before it comes again. I do agree with the statement because it involves the act of strategy which one should learn and take into consideration.

Do you think this statement is misleading?
The statement can be misleading only if one refuses to act on it at the right time, so the actuality is that it makes one ready for any task as it comes for immediate response. And so can not be misleading.

Do you have any personal experience or from someone you know to back up your take on the statement? Do share with us.

Ooh yes, I do have a personal experience with this very statement.

What went wrong

The opportunity that came my way in the past was when I was still studying in my undergraduate days, about the time of my graduation in my final year still struggling around on how I would finish my project going through so many processes, my mum had this one friend of which they schooled together during their diploma days and we're close so after some few years he got an offer for employment into the Nigerian security and civil defense corps (NSCDC) and immediately he called my mum if she had a daughter who had finished her diploma or undergraduate program so that he can do something about it to work in the corps.

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This was were the issue began because I was yet to conclude my program due to my study in my final year of which I was in the edge of finishing so my mum told him I would have been in the right position but due to the circumstances around I am still in school waiting to collect my degree certificate and so there is no other who can vouch for the post, he then told her not to worry since that's the case but maybe some other time if there is another slot he would inform her.

It's was an opportunity of it kind and when she told me I was sad but there's nothing I could do than to wait for the right time when it comes again, within me it's was like it only comes once in a blue moon I just had to let go and just focus on finishing and getting my certification, I would have been done but because of the issues of strike in our schooling system and the corona breakthrough I was unable to conclude my studies till it was over and so that's how the opportunity came and went but still hoping for another to come by this time around I would be ready and set for the task ahead of me.

If you were to rephrase this statement, what would the new statement be? (Optional).

A time passed can never be recovered

Conclusion
In conclusion, the statement is true but it depends on how we work toward archiving that opportunity that comes our way. As in my case, I had no option and that was why the opportunity came and passed. Everyone has his or her story but when the opportunity comes our way let's try to grab it because when we lose it, it won't come our way again. After all, time waits for no one and this opportunity comes but once. I invite @mjerry @josepha and @temitopef to come and share their opinions on this very topic.

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 2 years ago 

I just learn one new word today “ob portum veniens”. opportunity is indeed like wind, when it is blowing and it passes, the same wind can never reverse again. If someone missed an opportunity, the same opportunity can not come back again.

I agree with you, the statement is not assumed but fact, the opportunity is like a time, when it comes, make good use of it, but when it passes, it hardly comes back again, so always be ready at all points. The statement is not misleading if we understand the importance. ( I tend to reconsider it on this point again, on which cost those that opportunity comes? Those the cost you are paying worth the opportunity at hand? Is it not misleading if a lady agrees to sleep with a lecturer just to pass her exams? This justification is for the mature mind 'food for thought '.)

What is your opinion on the above?

To me, I think considering the effect and reputation of the price we pay to secure an opportunity is also a point to be considered. it's not all about the opportunity but on which base it comes?
A time pass can never be recovered actually.

Ohh! Your story touches me, you got the right opportunity at the wrong time, but since it is positive, better one await you.

I enjoyed reading every bit of what you wrote, it is enlightening.
Thanks for sharing dear friend.

 2 years ago 

Wow. I am happy that you learn new Latin phrases from my post.

You've just said it all. if we have an opportunity, we should first take a step back and analyze if we are fit to be a beneficiary, then take a step closer to see its benefit, then the last step to see the cost to pay... Take time to justify every opportunity critically before acceptance.

Smiles🥰. Imagine me accepting to marry a man just because I see it as an opportunity to marry not because of Love, do you know the price to pay is for a lifetime? This is a story for another day), If we take time to justify opportunities, it cannot be misleading. Forfeiting "some" opportunities at hand give us an open door for better opportunity ahead.

Thank you for elaborative comment dear friend.🤗🤗

Everyone has his or her story but when the opportunity comes our way let's try to record it because when we lose it, it won't come our way again.

Well said, my friend. For us to realise it was a golden opportunity for us, it took time. In the meantime, we all lost. For this, the reasons are numerous.

Those who seize every opportunity in their lives, on the other hand, achieve great success; those who do not, remain as rocks.

Nice entry from you. Take care of you.

 2 years ago 

Thank you very much for your contribution sir. I'm most grateful 🙏

 2 years ago 

Thank you for inviting me to the contest which you have written very well. Except my entry soonest.

 2 years ago 

Thank you, i can't wait to read through your opinion on this very topic.

Best regards

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 2 years ago 

And so can not be misleading.

That is it, the statement is never misleading but those who think is misleading only thought so because they did not understand the statement or did not act on time.

Though not all opportunities can be our own and going by your story, you were unable to grab the opportunity because of your education, another great opportunity is coming in which there won't be any hindrance on your way of getting it.

Thanks for the invite.

 2 years ago 

Yes ma. The justification of opportunity been misleading depends on how we view it just as you said.

If an opportunity passes us, we should prepare ourself for better opportunity ahead. Waiting for the same opportunity will make us stagnant in life. I believe the job slot that passes because of my education shows me that there are many people which see my importance to work for them, that increase my moral to study hard and complete my education for such opportunities ahead.

Than for your wonderful comments dear❤

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 2 years ago 

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 2 years ago 

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