Money and Marriage

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Today I am participating in the contest Does Money Make a Happy Couple? Hosted by @manuelhooks in Steem4Nigeria

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In the present modern race, in almost all developed and developing countries, women have been given equal rights as men, or continuous processes of giving rights are going on, as a result, now women are equal to men in every field. She is sharing in a big way, and her self-pride is also increasing day by day. But this self-pride has also given birth to new problems. You will come to know about this from my post.

Is money central to family happiness? If you think it is, please explain how but if you think it's not, please tell us what could be.

I have a clear idea that money is very important in life, but the happiness of any family cannot be made only by having money. It is possible that with money we can increase our happiness by buying many modern facilities in our home. But in fact, the main center of the happiness of the family is dedication, love, respect, complete support in happiness and sorrow, to appreciate each other's feelings towards each other. If a family has a lot of money but lacks these things, then that family cannot be happy.

What are some common money related issues among couples in your area? Does this have any cultural undertone?

Earlier, when women used to play the role of only a housewife, there has been a world of difference between then and now. At that time all the expenses were met only from husband's money, and money problems remained in most of the families. But in spite of that deficiency, mutual love and harmony remained in most of the families.

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But now since both men and women have become working in most of the families, now the money problems of the families are reducing a lot, but at the same time some new problems have arisen due to the working of both, like Lack of time for the sweet relationship between husband and wife, such as unnecessary doubts and good wishes between husband and wife, such as unnecessary bickering, and many more reasons.

How will you deal with a situation where a spouse feels that Your money is our money but my money is my money.

It is a very wrong thinking that when a husband or wife calls the money earned by him as my money, because I think that in any society, when a man and a woman get married, they are made to promise that they will unite. So when husband and wife become one in mind, speech, action, and religion, what is yours and what is mine, then whatever is earned by both of them should belong to both of them. I think that for the institution called marriage to run properly, husband and wife should also take a refresher course of their mutual promises made before or at the time of marriage, after some time.

In your opinion, is a wife obligated to submit her salary to her husband at the end of each month? Or should it be the other way round.

In my opinion, the answer is very clear, husband or wife should not be forced to deposit anyone's salary compulsorily, but both of them have the right to know that they can deposit their money. How do you spend in the family?

Why is money such a big issue in marriage lately? what measures do you [or will you] take to mitigate this problem.

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There are many reasons why money is becoming such a big issue after marriage these days, but the biggest reason is the mismatch in the earning level of the husband or wife, the second reason is the interference of the parents of the husband or wife, the third reason is problem of time husband and wife, lack of enough time for mutual harmony and love, the fourth and very special reason is stubbornness and pride.

If seen, I would like to say the same thing again that after marriage, husband and wife should respect each other completely and should not consider each other as a separate unit, this will end many ego, pride and discord, husband While giving full respect to their parents, both the husband and wife should not blindly believe everything they say. Love can survive only with full trust between husband and wife, otherwise it doesn't take long to disintegrate.

Thanks for Reading my post.