SEC | S11W3-""Discipline""
I'm @sumayaorin
From #Bangladesh
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Hello everyone
I hope this message finds you well. As we gather here, I can't help but reflect on the intricacies of discipline – a tool that shapes the foundation of our children's growth.I am enthusiastic about my forthcoming participation in the "discipline" contest, as this particular topic holds significant personal significance for me, stemming from my experiences as both a daughter and now a mother.
Discipline is like a helpful tool for growing and getting better. It's not just about punishing or controlling, but also about learning self-control, being responsible, and taking ownership. When we use discipline with care and understanding, it can teach us from our slip-ups, help us pick wiser options, and make us better overall. It's like finding the right mix between rules and letting us grow, while keeping things positive and respectful.
Me and my three years old daughter
In my capacity as an elder sibling to two younger family members, I have frequently assumed the responsibility of enforcing discipline on numerous occasions. From urging them to focus on studies to instilling good manners and habits, it's a responsibility that has often led to mixed reactions. Sometimes, my sisters would respond with frustration and resistance, only to later acknowledge the necessity of those moments. It's a parallel I draw from my own youth, when my parents guided me through discipline for similar reasons. Upon reflection, I have come to acknowledge the inherent worth of their endeavours, and I lament my previous inclination towards rebelliousness during my younger years.
Me as mom
Me as a elder sister
In the present day, I am the maternal figure to a vivacious three-year-old daughter. Parenting, as widely acknowledged, is an intricately demanding voyage. Discipline, undoubtedly, stands as a primary tool in nurturing our children. Yet, it's imperative for us, as parents, to approach it with mindfulness and understanding. The world around us has evolved, with myriad opinions and advice available at our fingertips. Gone are the days when one approach fits all. Balancing the delicate scales of affection and guidance, especially in the digital age, is no simple task.
The question of how we perceive discipline is worth pondering. Is it a display of affection or sternness?Based on my personal observations, it appears that the two aspects are intertwined. During the process of raising us, our parents effectively managed the interplay between their affection for us and the necessity of implementing disciplinary measures, so contributing to our current state of development. However, we must modify our strategy for the contemporary environment. It's important to strike the correct balance between caring and setting boundaries.
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Is discipline beneficial for our children? I firmly believe so. It lays the groundwork for character, resilience, and a strong moral compass. However, how we deliver it is what truly matters. Too much harshness can leave scars, while excessive leniency might hinder growth. In this delicate dance, we must strive for an approach that combines empathy, effective communication, and a keen understanding of our child's individuality.
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To those who give discipline, I offer this advice: approach it with empathy and patience. Please keep in mind that the objective is to provide guidance rather than to cause harm or disruption. It is prudent to exercise discernment when engaging in conflicts, carefully evaluating the potential lasting consequences of both verbal and behavioural expressions. And I say to those who experience punishment: Recognise that your parents' or elderly's intentions are based in love.. Reflect on their guidance, even if it seems tough now, for it's a testament to their commitment to your well-being.
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As we navigate the labyrinth of parenting, let's remember that discipline is not a rigid formula but a nuanced art. It's an expression of love, a beacon guiding our children through the twists and turns of life. May we all find the wisdom to strike the right chords, fostering a generation that is both disciplined and compassionate.
My Twitter link :
https://twitter.com/sumaya_orinseo/status/1688577395153117184?s=20
Your daughter so cute 😍😍
Hai @sumayaorin
Thank for sharing this valuable story. I think the discipline to look after children and take care of them, to teach them is not an easy activity. behind it all, there must be a sacrifice that you give. I hope the activities you do run smoothly. so that the teachings that you give to your daughter can make her a happy person.
I hope you and your family are always healthy Success for your contest! Don't forget to visit my post 🤗
Yes. I definitely try my level best to teach my daughter the best things. Maintaining discipline is one of them.
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Discipline is an attitude and feeling of obedience and obedience to the values that are believed to be one's responsibility. The scope of discipline which can include compliance with regulations or positive norms that apply in the surrounding environment makes discipline have a broad scope. However, when someone discusses discipline, the discussion is not far from discussing time.