SEC | S11W3-"Discipline"
Hello my dear Steemians,
Today I wanted to take part in the challenge that is running by Steem Kids & Parents Community and called "Discipline", please refer to the link if you want to read more:
https://steemit.com/hive-139765/@steemkidss/sec-s11w3-discipline
The reason why I wanted to share this is the fact that recently it feels like people became more relaxed in the education of their own children and give too much freedom. Is that good or not and if the children can grow up and learn their borders or reach their goals. It is impossible to predict, especially because we are all different and even if two children were taught by the same teacher and in the same class still the level of knowledge after absorbing hte same material could be different.
How do you view discipline? |
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In my opinion, discipline is very important and it should be started in early age of children, because then they get used to it since their childhood and later it will be like a habit.
It is important to give children good volume of attention and even if they do mistake just try to discuss that and explain what is wrong so that next time the child will know what to do.
Criticism is important but no punishment that only destroy the young psychology of a child.
Have you been disciplined before or have you ever disciplined someone? |
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I was lucky to grow up in such family that never hard any hard rules, we always had a good chat when my parents explained why something was wrong with good examples. I follow the examples of my parents and continue that in my own family.
Do you consider discipline as love or hatred despite how it is given? |
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Again I think it depends on how and where it is applied.
When I hear discipline I always recall my time when as a child I attended Gymnastic classes
In general I love gymnastic and was very happy to attend them twice a week, we always were told that we have to train at home as well. I do not know how other children did but I did the exercises at least two more days at home, so altogether I was training on 4 days a week and soon achieved very good results.
I remember my trainer was very pleased with that. For me I trained because I loved it and I was excited to see what I was able to achieve in short time. My parents were also very proud of me and I remember that my parents told me that it is because of my strict discipline I reached that and of course that was the wisdom that I learn. We can reach a lot if we put a lot of time and efforts.
Your personal advice to those who give discipline and to those who receive it |
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I think everything should be done thoughtful and the people who discipline others have to be strict but fair, their goals should be realistic and that people can reach them. In such cases the people who been disciplined will remember those with good words.
I hope that you also share my opinion, if not then you also can share your opinion in this challenge.
I would like to invite @fjjrg, @goodybest, @prilly to take part in this challenge
That is a nice work of art
Thank you Jeff, glad that you like my drawing :)
I shared your sentiments Discipline doesn't mean punishment, it includes training, education and corrections and as you rightly said, it's good to begin early, then children will grow up according to the way. It's good to learn that you love gymnastics indeed we need to be disciplined to be successful in life.
Thank you for sharing my point of view, it is often when children we do not understand and do not really like the idea or certain rules. Later on many will understand and feel how it makes their life easier. I hope that young generation will be like us once they mature and adopt that in their principles of life.
Hello friend stef1, greetings from a distance, thanks for participating in the challenge, your drawing or supporting image is beautiful and helps your publication a lot.
It is very important to start discipline from an early age of our lives so that we have foundations and character that allows us to grow and develop progress and success in any area of society.
One of the words that caught my attention from you when you say: "you grew up in a family where communication was the main thing." that is a good start to have an effective and efficient discipline.
All discipline varies from the situation and the environment where it is lived.
Happy afternoon and many blessings comrade.
Thank you @rdp89 for reading my post and I am also pleased to find that you find it important that we have to have discipline in our life. What we learn ourselves we automatically give it to our children. I am glad that often based on our own experience we make some adjustment and hope that this will make the life of our children easier.
Now when I have a young almost adult son, it is hard to know how much to advise that is difficult time but still we should continue communicate and work together maybe on our both points of view and who knows we also may change something in us.
It was nice to share the opinion with you and thank you for visiting this post.
Greetings partner @stef1, it was a pleasure supporting your publication, I'm glad you have good communication in your home.
success in your participation friend.
good day!
The point is that when we do discipline it is a way to success, consistency and discipline are the big keys for us to succeed in making something. I agree with your article
Thank you for visiting my post and glad that you also have the same views. I believe despite of being in different part of the world and difficult tradition we still remain same parents, family and our children.
Es muy cierto que para lograr la disciplina no hace falta el castigo ni los gestos demasiados despectivos que influyen negativamente en la psicología del niño, pero la idea no es que se mal entiendan esos lineamientos y se dejen a los pequeños a la deriva, a que hagan lo que les venga en gana, haciéndoles también un gran daño para su futuro, ya que les costará entender que el éxito implica esfuerzo y mucha disciplina. Éxitos, amigo. Saludos...
Thank you @cruzamilcar63 for visiting my post and I am pleased to find your point of you too. It is common that something that is clear for us, often may not be for others. Often if we do not communicate directly we never can solve the problem, we all may sometimes realise but we are afraid to accept that we are wrong. The life is very tricky but that is why it is so good :)
Holaa sr @stef1 me encantó su foto de portada porque adoro el ballet y me imagino que para ello se necesita mucha disciplina. Tiene razon la educacion de nosotros ha cambiado yo soy una adolescente y de todas formas reconozco eso. Suerte en su reto bye❤️.
Thank you @mariagood, glad that you love my drawing, it remained me the childhood and the time when parents had many different subjects to teach and to request from our. Of course, it was hard and seemed to be unfair but now I am very glad to had it like that and indeed that gave me great experience of life now.
Thank you, friend!
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Greetings Respected Sir,
First of l am very happy to see your participation in this challenge. Without a doubt, discipline is the basis of success, friend. I think that discipline teaches us to mature, to be more responsible and to follow rules that help us achieve goals.
Regards,
Faran Nabeel
Thank you Faran for visiting my post and I am glad that you also sharing the importance of discipline for the establishment of individuals. We often do not realise that when we are young but later one we definitely appreciate it.
Yes sure my dear sir. Thank you so much for this valuable feedback...
Es un gusto saludarte.
La disciplina debe darse desde que somos muy pequeños, está nos ayuda a respetar las normas y reglas. Pero hay que ser muy equilibrado al impartir. No recurrir a la violencia.
Feliz noche