SEC17 WK:#3: large and small families, likes and dislikes
The Nuclear Family |
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This type of family always have maximum privacy that's one of the main reasons I love it so much. This family comprises of the Father, Mother & Children. In this type of family, the father doesn't need to stress himself too much like the father of so many children from different wives. The rate of argument here is very low and unexpected because in the extended family there are maximum changes of argument especially when the two wives dislike each other.
My family is a nuclear family and the family I will be the breadwinner of in the future, will definitely be a nuclear family because I don't intend to marry more than one wife and I don't intend to give birth to more than four (4) children's. The nuclear family is relatively easy-going, no much noise or daily problem but I will boldly tell you that one of the problem that can make the nuclear family very frustrating is when The couples are both AS
This is my choice |
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The nuclear family is my choice of family, I love it alot and as a simple guy, I love simple life. I will raise my home to a state that my children and wife will respect me even in my absence both mortal or immortal. Life isn't easy so we need to make few things easy for ourselves as God gave all of us brain to reason. I can't be getting married to two wives, all I need is already in one woman.
Even if I get married to one wife, it hasn't ended there as the both of us will bow need to plan the way we want our family to be like which is the number of kids we want to raise. Am sure my wife will also want to raise four children. I will try my best not have more than 4 children because is quite unnecessary to have up to 8 children. Kids are kids, we don't need to be giving birth to numerous kids as if we want to sell them. I can't wait to succeed academically and financially in life then finally get married. I have alot to do when am married 🫣.
My likes and dislikes |
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Life isn't easy at all as God has made it possible for everything to have both an advantage and disadvantage but I believe he did such thing for our own good. The nuclear family isn't an exception as there are also disadvantages of nuclear family.
The expenses is relatively low.
There's no much noise in family home.
Children gets enough attention from parents.
The bond in the family is strong and can never break.
When the need comes for them to be large, they are on the unsafe side.
House chores will be double for kids because they aren't many to finish it on time.
- Children mostly love it when many people are in the house to play with them.
- Every member always ensure that they stay calm wherever they are because their family is small and won't get faster help if they are in trouble far from home.
What informed my decision |
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Low expenses is what I really love in this kind of family. Since my family is already a nuclear family, I now have alot of experience about it and I believe I can raise my own nuclear family in the future. As the first son at home I have alot of experience concerning our family issues and am the third breadwinner in my family. Currently all the bill around me are settled by me, you can never see me with a new phone or clothes or anything that's my new property and say is my parents that bought it for me.
Am not living outside home but am already taking care of myself financially and I appreciate God for his grace. I pray that God provides for my parents so that they can be doing alot of things they intend to do with money. In the nuclear family there's lower chances of being betrayed as well because everyone knows each other completely. If I raise my children very well, they will be fit and capable of taking care of my future wife and I when we get old. Thanks for reading and I believed you successfully learnt something new.
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The nuclear family is usually calmer and in an environment where everything is sharing. It is good that your family is made up of your parents and siblings and nothing more than that because having other children would surely be a topic of discussion between everyone and great expenses since they are two families, excellent that you intend to get married only once and have a maximum of 4 children where you provide love, education and stability.
If there are advantages and disadvantages because a small family means fewer expenses and more resources, now a large family increases both parties, as a friend should begin to have responsibility.
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Good morning sir, your comment has alot of quality that's impressive. Yes I want to have a nuclear family whereby the maximum amount of children I want to have should be 4, just like the number of children my parents have.
Large family isn't easy at all as alot of things do go on in such family, noise is one of the biggest issue in such family. I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge sir.
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Perfectly said Saint, I love the idea you have about large and small family, I also prefer a small family which is also the same thing as the nuclear family, because I can say large family can be a lot of trouble, because I have experienced it😔 the house is never peaceful, unlike now that we are just a small family😊 I wish you the very best in this contest 🎉
Good morning sweetheart, hope you slept well last night? Small family is very accommodating and good to manage especially when the breadwinner isn't wealthy.
Oh yeah you experienced a large family lifestyle, that sounds creepy but is good are now with your actual family. Have a nice day.
Thank 😊 you sir
Hola, hola.
Que bueno que le guste la idea de tener solo una esposa y que la respete para toda la vida.
Tener cuatro hijos hace que su familia se vea grande pero está bien.
Me gustó mucho su participación.
Saludos cordiales.
Muchas Bendiciones..🙏🏻
Of a truth,in a nuclear family there's a lower chance of being betrayed since everyone knows each other. In all,we must strive to raise a good family. Good luck
Good morning bro, thanks for commenting on my post, I really love it. Yh small family hardly get betrayed and deceived because they all know themselves.
I hope you will also participate in this contest, I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.
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Thank you for sharing your important thoughts with us. Every large and small family has some advantages and some disadvantages, but in today's time, looking at the rising inflation, it would be appropriate to say that only a small family can be a happy family. Your family is small and lovely.
Hello dear good morning, thanks for the review dear. Small family is very necessary and more better because things doesn't really get difficult for the breadwinner if he isn't wealthy. Have a nice day.
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Of a truth, I love nuclear family, it's much safer and easy to control unlike the big (extended) family.
I told someone days back that I will love to have almost 2 kids when the rightful time comes and the person was asking me what if they die, we don't pray for such gravy uncertainties but the society has grown to this stage the parents needs to have kids in small numbers so they can easily control and med them into future leaders not the other way round.
Best of luck my friend.
Thanks 😊 for the wonderful comment my post bro, I really appreciate it alot. Are you seriously saying that someone told you what if the children die that you should born more than 2 🤣🤣🤣.
People dey talk oo. Anyway you are right, we don't pray for such a thing to happen and id important to think positive at all times.
You have written a very good post my dear friend 🐱, the likes and dislikes which you mentioned are all absolutely right. As you said, that the expenses is relatively less. There's no much noise in home and children can get enough attention from parents. All this is about the nuclear family.
I wish you good luck for the challenge. Many more success to you 😊
Hello dear thanks alot for this wonderful comment, I really love it. The nuclear family is very amazing and unique and I will love to raise a nuclear family someday.
I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.