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RE: Weekend Trip to Gharial | Day#1 - Played Golf and Smashed it
It's always portrayed in our cliche Pakistani dramas, memes, and everywhere that once you get married, it gets boring. Abhi toh time hai enjoy karne ka abhi kyu shaadi karne ki pari hai tumhe.
Reading your posts (and I read them regularly) I believe all of that is plain bs. I mean, look at you, you are married with a couple of kids, but still here you are hitting the road with your family, enjoying with them, staying in random guesthouses and having the time of your life. Yes, surely, there are many compromises that a mom and a dad have to make but in my opinion, if both of them have got each other's backs, it gets easier doesn't it? I mean I am no expert. I'll maybe find out the reality of marriages once I 'settle down' 😂
Haha. This comment made me realise that I'm living a good life, Alhamdulillah.
Marriage is not easy specially if you don't have each others back, it gets chaotic. With kids, it gets 100 times tough. I don't share the rough days here and don't want to scare away young people like you. 🤣
It's just that we prioritize our mental health more and are on the same page about this thing. So if we have 10 rough days then we make sure to do something on 11th day. It doesn't have to be a trip, it can be anything like doing grocery together or taking kids to the park or cooking together, the purpose is to spend quality time as a family.