Haha. This comment made me realise that I'm living a good life, Alhamdulillah.

Marriage is not easy specially if you don't have each others back, it gets chaotic. With kids, it gets 100 times tough. I don't share the rough days here and don't want to scare away young people like you. 🤣

It's just that we prioritize our mental health more and are on the same page about this thing. So if we have 10 rough days then we make sure to do something on 11th day. It doesn't have to be a trip, it can be anything like doing grocery together or taking kids to the park or cooking together, the purpose is to spend quality time as a family.