SEC17/W2| While making decisions, what do you prefer to follow: heart or mind?

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What is your preference while making decisions, heart or mind?

While taking decisions, both our heart and mind show their presence, but now the difference here is that when I take a decision in a business situation, then instead of listening to emotions and heart, I take the decision only keeping in mind the importance of the matter. Because such decisions cannot be beneficial for everyone, and some may benefit and some may also suffer loss.

But if the decision is regarding any of my family matters or any woman or child, then I have to keep in mind the voice coming from my heart, and take the decision keeping that voice in mind.

Therefore, it is impossible to always choose the same priority in my decisions.

Do you think we need both in terms of making decisions? Describe reasons.

I don't think so. It is my firm belief that we should listen to both the heart and mind while taking decisions, because if a person only listens to his mind then there will be absolutely no emotions in that decision. And such decisions can only be taken by a dictator and a hard-hearted person.

Such decisions are called capricious decisions in the society. I have myself seen many times that when I take decisions at my workplace only with my mind and not with my heart, those decisions do not turn out to be beneficial for everyone, and some people also get harmed because of it.

For example, some people in our hospital were supplying electricity to their homes by connecting wires from government electricity connections, and I had disconnected the connections of all such people and ordered them to get the connections in their own names. Initially many people had opposed this decision of mine, but later after making them understand by citing the rules, everything became normal.

Are you an emotional or a practical person in real life?

Yes, I can definitely consider myself both practical and emotional, in fact no person can be practical who is not emotional. We have to maintain many relationships in our life, and from childhood we are taught to respect our elders, respect our teachers, be submissive to our parents and relatives, fear God, worship God, and so on.

All the rituals gradually settle in our hearts and take our emotional form. That is why if a social person, who is brought up in values, is practical while maintaining emotional relationships.

Do you have any suggestions for youth which one they should follow in their day-to-day lives?

I always have only one suggestion to the youth that no matter how much he studies and becomes a rich man, he should keep his inner humanity alive, he should not hesitate in helping the poor, the helpless and the needy. He should not weigh his emotional personality on the scale of money.

He should always take his decisions after thinking with his heart and mind. He should always follow the right policies taught by his elders and parents.

And in the end I would like to say that if a person does not get separated from his people but lives his life taking everyone along and satisfying everyone's wishes by understanding them, then he will experience a special satisfaction and happiness in his life.

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 6 months ago 

I appreciate your thoughtful approach to decision making, balancing both the heart and mind in different situations. Your real life example adds depth to your perspective. Best of luck in the contest

 6 months ago 

Hello my friend ,
You read my post and agree with me,
Thanks and respect.

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But if the decision is regarding any of my family matters or any woman or child, then I have to keep in mind the voice coming from my heart, and take the decision keeping that voice in mind.

Oh yeah, I totally get this. When it's about family, emotions kick in big time. I remember when my sister wanted to pursue art instead of a more stable career. My mind said stability, but my heart couldn't ignore her passion. So, we found a middle ground.

I don't think so. It is my firm belief that we should listen to both the heart and mind while taking decisions, because if a person only listens to his mind then there will be absolutely no emotions in that decision.

You are right. My experience taught me that too. Once, I focused only on logic in a tough decision at work, ignoring how it might affect my team emotionally. It created tension and hurt morale. Balancing both is key.

I always have only one suggestion to the youth that no matter how much he studies and becomes a rich man, he should keep his inner humanity alive, he should not hesitate in helping the poor, the helpless and the needy.

This reminds me of my grandfather's advice. He used to say, "No matter where life takes you, never forget your roots." He lived by that, always helping others even when he didn't have much. It's not about wealth, it's about kindness.

Good luck

 6 months ago 

Respected Sir,
Your comments are very meaningful and detailed, I am always impressed by you, I am glad that you agree with me.
With respect and honor.

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In actual life, decisions shape us and that is why we must really be careful of the type of decisions we actually make. That is the way it is really I must confess I must confess. That is absolutely the truth and that we must really be careful and working towards on. There are some instances that I look at some decisions I made in my life in the past that I wish I should not have made and when I eventually made it, some end in negative and some end in positive.

Though I learnt from all these and this make me a better person. When it comes to decisions making, I am so sure that it is worth taking careful consideration and time to look into it carefully so that we will not actually end up taking wrong decisions we should not have taken in life. That is my honest opinion to it. We must really be careful of those decisions because they can either make or mar us in life and destiny.

About whether using the heart or the mind to make decisions, I will rather say it contains both of them. There are actually instances that we really need to make use of the mind to make some decisions and there are instances that we really need to make use of the heart to also make decisions. In whatever way it is, we can end up making right decisions if we wre able to take right steps towards it. Thank you so much for sharing this quality publications friend because I was really able to learn quite a lot from your post today I must confess.

 6 months ago 

Hello my friend, @royalevidence
After reading my post, you must have agreed with me that if a person is either happy or sad due to some decisions taken in his life. But a true person is the one who learns from his wrong decisions in life and does not repeat them again.
I wish you a bright future.

Stabilizing heart plus mind is crucial in decision-making differing with situations. In organization usefulness dominates for justness. Yet, in domestic or understanding issues paying attention to the heart overviews the most effective end results. Both are necessary for alternative choices. As a mix of usefulness as well as feeling keeping humankind in the middle of success is important suggestions for young people.

 6 months ago 

Hello my friend,
Your agreement with my post will give me new inspiration.
With thanks.

Apreciado amigo me gusta tu criterio y has señalado algo muy importante y que va a depender de la decisión que se tome porque hay cosas que pueden manejar con el corazón pero hay otras que solo debemos usar la mente tal como en los negocios. Te deseo éxitos y bendiciones

 6 months ago 

gracias mi amigo,
Tu comentario es muy importante para mí.
Con respeto y honor.

He should always take his decisions after thinking with his heart and mind. He should always follow the right policies taught by his elders and parents.

If a good decision is to be made, the heart and mind is to be synced.

 6 months ago 

@databae,
Thanks for commenting on my post.

 6 months ago 

¡Saludos amigo!😊

Hay decisiones que repercuten de manera individual pero, también están las colectivas por lo tanto, decidir no solo implica tener en cuenta la menta o el corazón sino, las circunstancias. No obstante, en este punto se debe tener en cuenta que, si decidimos desde ambas características, los resultados positivos son más agradables.

Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚

 6 months ago 

Gracias mi mejor amigo,
Ese comentario me hace feliz
Te deseo éxito también.
Con respeto y honor.

Hola, me gusto tu enfoque sobre usar ambos órganos y el balance que debe existir al momento de decidir, tus consejos sobre la juventud también me parecieron acertados, muy buen criterio en la toma de decisiones. Éxitos

 6 months ago 

Hola mi amigo, @constanzagr
Gracias por su apreciable comentario y buenos deseos.
Con Respeto.

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