We are on the same page my friend! I daydream sometimes about moving to Paraguay and grow my own food in a sane environment, but I am too old, to weak and too burnt out to actually make this a reality.
I don't have children, so I guess I am lucky in a sense that I have one thing less to worry about.
But here is a thought: For a new generation, any situation is "normal". They don't know any better, they don't know how it could be. To them the sky was always gray. They will adjust to their reality the same way we did with ours. We don't know what reality would have been possible for us, either. We also grew up in the illusion, that constant wars are "normal" and necessary for example. Only old people are aware of what is being lost. I remember dismissing all concerns about the deterioration of society from my grandparents as old-fashioned and exaggerated myself and experienced the "modern" way of life much better and more advanced than the old way. Guess that's just life. It is just the incredible speed of how our reality changes right now that makes it difficult to deal with.