They actually were guilty of putting money they couldn’t lose in an untested virtual computer. I have no sympathy for them. People should take responsibility for thier mistakes. In any case they got their fork with the do over. Why would you begrudge the dissenters from keeping a no do over version Of the code? This precedent that you can fork to avoid an unpopular outcome is horrible. Once something is in the blockchain that should be the end of it. Did bitcoin fork to undo my gox?

Good idea. They should have.
Despite the difference between the cases, that you know as much as I do.
As for the rest,
If you are aware of what happened and think it should not be "begrudge"d, I think you are too grown for me to educate or preach to, so keep buying from scammers.