Get closer to me
Relationship is the interaction between two people who are committed to each other. On the way, the relationship will always be colored by a reasonable tide, considering that both sides have their own wants and needs. Two committed people may look cool and fine. Other people will not think that behind the warmth shown, the couple may be entering vulnerable moments.
When your relationship is no longer the same as it used to be, there must be an uncomfortable feeling that culminates in a suspicious partner. He who was close and attentive now feels increasingly distant.
The relationship between one human being and another is something very unpredictable. If too far, it will be bargaining, but if too close, hatred can also come unexpectedly. Relationships between humans it must be no limit. As close as anything to a person, do not go too far, because it can make the relationship even tenuous.
Relationship with spouse, there should still be little room. Between husband and wife, although very close, but that does not mean there can be no little secrets. With this little space, it can create a harmonious relationship between husband and wife remain awake.
Saturated is human. You do not need to be afraid, because if it is like that, later he will return as before. But be wary if he really intend to leave you. Maybe by recognizing the signs, you can know right now what you have to behave.
Maybe it was time he missed the times he was free to go anywhere and do his own thing. Your existence is not undesirable. It's just that he may just want to feel something else by traveling without you.
But he'll still make sure you're okay. At least he will ask you where and spend time with whom. It will calm him down, so that when you are not with him, he does not have any kind of thoughts.
On the other hand, a couple who really no longer care about you will not even bother checking your condition when he's in a different place.
In order to avoid conflict, not infrequently your partner just say 'yes-yes' only. When in fact he mengingkan other things, just afraid to hurt or make you angry. You must be sensitive. An adult relationship is an honest relationship about the desire that arises from the heart. If he wants his own first, he'll tell you.
Rather than being suspicious and discrediting him, give him time to enjoy his freedom. Not that you become indifferent and just let it go. Say that you believe in him and want him to have fun too while not in the same place as you.
Trust like this will make him relieved and shorten his saturation because after all he will miss and come back to you. But if the confidence to ask for understanding is gone, it seems like your relationship needs to be redefined.

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