" Love is like cigarette , after burning it only left ashes.."
Well from last few days I was feeling like something is missing, something I want to express but I don't know what it is..After a cup of coffee and a cigarette, I decided I should write my unfinished thoughts. Few days back I have posted a video called How do you know when it is time to give up on something?... Let's talk about it... which I feel still unfinished or incomplete.
@ecotrain question of this week is How do you know when it is time to give up on something? which driven me into deep thoughts.
We, human always believe that we shouldn't give up on anything infact I also believe that but is it really possible everytime...For me, give up on anything means something extra. Let me explain...
May be you’re the only person who shows interest in solving the problem or reaching the goal, but the outcome also depends on other people.
Well, in relationship sometimes we have to give up. I had a situation where I had to give up, is that mean I am looser or failure or don't have the ability to work on relationship?? No...I gave up because it didn't work. Relationship is really sensitive, like a glass jar. If you can't handle properly it will break down. Sometimes we are unable to continue it as that bonding happen between two persons. One sided love, affection never work out, you can't force anyone to stay with you so isn't it better to let it go...
I believe if anyone wants to go let them go, if it is give up than I am happy that I gave up...
“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.”
Sometimes we feel pissed off or fucked up on our regular life, may be job problem , relationship problem and yes we should try to sort it out and keep patience.
But when you actually feel you should give up :
I know many people have different perspective as well as mine. But when I feel that my decision is wrong, mistake , when I feel I am not happy or anything that is not satisfy me I just take a break and move on. We human make mistakes and sometimes a wrong decision can changes everything, so on that type of circumstances I feel like it's better I should quit and focus on something else which is important for me because I don't want to feel miserable or don't wanna create any doubt on myself and my abilities.
Yes, my dreams several times broke down but I never stopped dreaming. I was pissed off on specific situations but I moved on and never go back. I took wrong decisions but I never let myself down, I walk away and never look back.
So it is okay if you give up sometimes on something because it will make you more mature. But...
Give up/ giving up is not a solution, because there will be always difficulties on your way and you will feel that no more, enough is enough. So, you have to take decision wisely. You have to choose what you want and analyze current situations. We all face difficulties , obstacles in pursuing our goal , personal or professional. We think we are doing right but after certain time we realize we have chosen wrong way.
So before doing or taking any decisions ask yourself questions. You will find your answer whether you have to give up or not.
I am @priyanarc..... An architect, a dreamer and a passionate writer who loves to write about life.I try to present my own perspective and experiences. Please leave your feedback and criticism because it's the only way i can know and reach your mind and thought easily...
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