RE: Are Women Who Dress Provocatively Responsible for Unwanted Attention, or Should Men Learn to Control Themselves?
mmm, passion!
Great power post.. id like to pick up on a couple of questions / points.. You asked:
"Honestly, what does provocative dressing mean?"
So i think this has to do with how you carry yourself and where you are etc.. its not just what you wear, but how you wear it, and where you are when you wear it!
this is a really complicated topic.. but i think that we all have to take responsibility for our actions to Some extent.. and where that lines is will totally depend on you! The way I see it is that the whole issue is one of so many symptoms of a totally messedup and very ill culture or society that is becoming cloned around the world.. it is totally crazy what is happening!
when you bring a child up, as you have.. with some balance and great feminine qualities. all these problems seem to Vanish!
I'm a passionate woman, that's for sure!!! Especially these days. I'm rediscovering my power, worth, and voice.
I agree with you that it's more about how you carry yourself than what you wear. My point is that, even if a woman is really trying to feel and be sexy, that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with any man, and it almost certainly doesn't have anything to do with every man. I really and truly don't see how a woman has any responsibility to bear based on what she wears or how she carries herself. Now, if she rapes a man or another woman, clearly she bears responsibility, but nothing she can do or say can justify a man invading her space physically or even verbally.
Without a doubt, raising balanced, kind, gentle, respectful, and thoughtful children is crucial!!