"Help me to find the girl I was dreaming about three nights in a row, and who loved me so much!" - Dream interpretation
Excerpt: This may be the most frustrating thing, a dream in which you meet someone and you two love each other immensely. Alas, when you wake up you realize that it was "just" a dream. So frustrating! There is a higher meaning in such encounters and a very encouraging one, giving us a glimpse of the love that inherently resides within each of us, a love that once assimilated in our physical reality, transforms our life completely.
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Hi,
After last night I decided I had to find out what it was all about. I really need help to find the meaning of some things.
So, first of all, some details about myself: my name is Ron, I'm 28 years old, I just finished a bachelor's degree in geography specializing in the environmental studies. After graduation, I found myself unemployed for half a year. Since then I have found a minimum wage job, mostly working with unprofessional guys. Because of this situation, unfortunately, I still live with my parents.
Plus, I have always been a shy person, really shy. I'm quite introverted, do not talk much when I'm with my friends, I like listening more. In addition, I am really shy about making conversations with girls. I never had the courage to approach girls in pubs, clubs, or just like that on the street. Apart from a girlfriend who lived in Spain whom I saw once every four months for three years, I have not been in any serious relationship. In the past year, things have changed a bit, but that has nothing to do with it.
In recent weeks I have had four dreams, of which I remember parts. There was a girl who kept hugging me and wanted my closeness, and I felt she really loved me.
This girl was exactly my type, she had a very big and loving heart, and hugged me and loved without limitation (nothing sexual, just talks and hugs). This girl keeps telling me her name "[UNDISCLOSED FOR PRIVACY MATTERS – Nomad-magus]".
I do not know such a person in my life, and I have no idea where this girl came from and where this name got into my consciousness and dreams. I tried to look for her on Facebook, but the girls I saw there, under that name, were not like the girl from my dreams (in each dream she looked exactly the same).
I do not remember the other details of the dreams, so it might be problematic to interpret. But I'd be glad if you could somehow help me understand. Who is the girl, where did this name come from, why the name came into my life all of a sudden, what am I supposed to do with it.
I very much identify with what you wrote and have a similar story -
A few years ago, I dreamed that I was coming to some well-known city in the world (the details are not important). I'm at the airport. I arrive at the passport control booth to speak with the inspector and suddenly feel a very intense love for her and from her, a strong psychic attachment and physical attraction. We embrace, she smiles, I smile back. All good. At one point I asked her for her name and she told me, first and last name.
So what was the first thing I did after waking up?
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Facebook. I found some girls by the same name, I wrote to them, some replied, but nothing. No one was like her and no one dreamed of me that night, none of them was from the same city either. In short - nothing. I forgot about it.
After a few months, I was contacted by someone I used to know from the same distant city. In addition, there was something symbolic about her that connected to the girl's name. Then I made the connection and interpreted my dream for myself. The conclusions I have reached may be relevant to you too.
First, the girl in your dream represents a deep inner consciousness that exists fundamentally within you. Simply put, your soul used the image of that girl to convey to you the message that you are loved. From what you describe it is obvious that you need to know that you are very loved, appreciated, special, and charming. While this feeling of "being loved" is the natural privilege of every human it is very difficult for people to accept that. Your soul asks you to feel that love within you. Even when you're awake. Especially then.
This in itself will make the changes in the circumstances of your life. Another message is - do not compromise. Do not enter into a relationship when the emotional motif you felt in the dream is missing. The goal in life is not to be in a relationship for the sake of a relationship. Remember this.
As for that specific girl - since you've been dreaming about her a few times, why don't you ask her, in the dream, for her identity, and if you two will ever meet and when? Try to get as many details as possible. Ask her if you need to do something to meet her in the waking reality. If you do not get answers, or if you are not conscious enough to ask, I recommend you take the issue totally out of your head, focus on your feelings and emotions and let your life flow. Things will unfold as they should.
Thank you very much. It's amazing how dreams can affect you. In those dreams, I felt such a strong feeling for that girl that I have never felt before, not even towards my ex.
Does my dream really mean that I'm loved by someone? I wish it was so easy to find someone who would love me in such a crazy way.
But I have a question - how can I, in the dream, make myself aware enough to think of questions and ask her? How can I get back to that dream in order to meet her again? And will I really receive genuine answers?
The feeling you felt was stronger than ever before because this love comes from within you, from the source of your soul. It's true love. Any love that you will ever feel towards another human being will be based on this sourced love.
Rest assured, there is indeed someone who loves you very much. Do not doubt it. You are now preparing yourself to meet that person and she prepares herself for you. The dreams help you to process and assimilate the changes you are going through!
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How can one be lucid in a dream? It takes some practice. Before you fall asleep, say to yourself, "Tonight I will be aware in my dreams, I will know that I am dreaming." On the first night you may not be successful but keep practicing. Only practice brings results. Moreover, you can go back to the same place in a dream! Just tell yourself before you go to sleep that this is what you want. However, it is important not to exert too much mental pressure. That is, do not think about it too much. It will happen, by itself. When you put too much effort you create a screen of thoughts that blocks you from reaching your destination in the dream.
And above anything else, trust in yourself, trust in the process and trust that everything unfolds for you appropriately.
Goodluck!
Dream is like a virtual reality, we all have a dream, either it is a nightmare or a blessing to us. But the dream is just a dream without execution. Stop dreaming and do it anyways no matter what happen. Dream is just a hint and a sign that it is time to "do it"! If you are dreaming to that woman go find her it doesn't matter how she looks, but what most important is don't give up looking at her.
Since the I had a dream and got the confirmation immediately I opened my eyes, I dare not call any dream a mare dream again.
Dreams are powerful, it's a way of unfolding the unknown to us.
Your dream is meaningful and @namdlad-magus has done well with the interpretation as well.
Let me just add this little note to it.
You need to take your mind off it, do not be troubled by it at all, but be more conscious of the happenings in your environment and ensure you have her picture in your mind as well. Somebody very close to you might have been manifesting the quality you saw in her, but if you don't allow rest to take over your mind, you won't see her.
And again, the name she gave to you in your dream my not follow the order of her name in reality, in fact people might not know her with that name. So, stay focus and don't get confused.
You dream is a good pointer of what's next in your life, that's why it keep repeating itself. Be open minded.
Wise words, mate👍
Thanks for the compliment...
Once you’re committed to going out and meeting women, let me give you the magic recipe to become a Heartbreak Kid (HBK):
Hit on every pretty woman you meet. Engage, ask questions, compliment them. See if they’re receptive. If you’ll never see her again, ask her out - even on the first encounter - who cares, you’ll never see her again anyway. Shoot for the moon. If you’ll see her again, ask her out within 2 weeks tops to avoid entering the friend zone.
Be rejected and persevere. Expect rejection. It comes with the territory of meeting the one for you. Remember, you only need to strike gold once.
Kash - You’ll need to make money to be attractive. Money can buy you nice clothes, a car, dinner and confidence. Don’t think that you’ll be a great catch without being financially stable.
Good luck!
Hmm...looking back, my experience was different. Although I was poor and with no money at all, I have met amazing ladies whose company enriched my life tremendously. The secret was that it never crossed my mind that money should stand between me and a loving relationship.
Everyone has the right to love anyone in their own way. But there is nothing more painful than an unrequited love.
When all the effort you have done to get his heart, strives to create the best possible relationship, give attention, energy and time, but he still does not respect you, will you still survive and humble begging for love?
Hey beautiful .. admonish this.
When he does not respect you, whatever you do he will not see. Instead he will only look at you low, like a slave who begs to remain enslaved rather than released.
If you are unappreciated, go. Never count how much tears flow. Just calculate your footsteps, how far you can go from him, then God will reward your step with happiness someday.
Never think negatively that karma will come to him. Needless to say. No need to say. All will happen by itself. Because God is never unfair to play his role.
You do not have to hurt yourself by doing stupid things that hurt yourself just for the sake of him who has obviously ignored you. Your world is not just him. Your life is not to worship him.
Do not wish her love someone who does not know how to treat someone who likes her. Rest assured, If someday you will be met with someone who will always appreciate your whole life.
MY DREAMING GIRL:
this article remembered my old story,,About 5 years ago,,i made a relation with a girl,,That was my 1st relation...this relation stayed on 1 month,,i really loved her,,but family problem ,,this was not stayed,,I got shocked,,,nothing was not liked by me,,i saw dream every night with her,,,Days passed,,i hoped she will come,,,she also loved me a lot,,but family pressure ,,she didn't contact me,,,weekend time she messaged me once,,days passed about 3 years from this event,,I taught a student on a deep night,,on that Night i saw her and addressing her name,,i felt so nervous when my student asked !!!!i didn't understand whom he know that name...then he told me that night event,,,After that day,,i found her on the Facebook request me to accept ,,,that's my story and got her in my life ...
I hope you will find your dreaming girl.. @nomad-magus
I loved your personal sroty👍
For me, since you are a shy type of person and you are already 28 years old but sad to say , you don’t have a serious relationship yet, you’re subconscious tells you that there is someone who loves you unconditionally. Maybe you knew her already but hadn’t recognize the presence or maybe it tells you that sooner you will find the right girl for you. Sometimes,dreams could be true. So, maybe someday ,you will meet that girl which is exactly the name that the dream mention. Coz I knew someone before that she wanted to marry a man that named want she wanted. Fortunately, after a long years,she really got married to a man that was exactly what she dreamed for. So, just take it easy and continue your goals coz if that is for you,it will be given to you.
Thanks for sharing @nomad-magus I enjoyed reading your post.
So many people are in the same situation. Especially in the US, where students take an overinflated loan sponsored by our government.
I’m a shy person as well and sometimes if I want to do something, but my conciseness doesn’t allow me, I use this so called “21 seconds rule”. I use this short time to do something I normally wouldn’t. It does work. I think it’s very hard to plan (not impossible as you mentioned) any questions for your dream about this girl, if it comes back. If you dream and at the same time are conscious about remembering what to ask for, it’s not a dream anymore. Does it make sense? I think, I’m a bit behind in this kind of “preparation for a dream”. But as you said “practice”. I do feel with this guy, because I had similar dream in my past. If it’s meant to be, they will find each other eventually.
it's called a lucid dream
שאלה במקום!
להבנתי יש להפריד בין רגש האהבה שהוא דומננטי מאוד בחלומות ומבטא חיבור ברמה נפשית עמוקה, לבין תחושות של עצב, תסכול, ופחד שמקורן במיינד. הסיבה שתחושות אלו מועצמות בחלום היא שהמסננים שאנחנו רגילים להפעיל בחיי הערות לא קיימים כשהמיינד רדום. וטוב שכך, כי באופן הזה אנחנו מתוודעים למה שבאמת מתחולל בפנים.
תודה על המשוב :-)
כי בקריפטו למשל אני ממש בור ועם הארץ.
אני אפילו לא נכנסת לכל התכנונים של איך מצביעים ומה עושים ומה לא עושים כדי לא להפסיד או להרוויח אני פשוט זורמת ומתייחסת לעניין בקלילות כאילו אני רושמת איזה יומן חיים ועל הדרך נהנית מהצצה בתכנים שמעניינים אותי אצל אחרים.
כל זאת כיוון שהציגו לי (הבן שלי) את הפלטפורמה כמבוזרת ושאם יום אחד פייסבוק יחסם אז ישאר לי משהו מכאן.
The dreams you had are so touching, I must confess. I know exactly how it feels when such happens in one dreams because it has also happened to me several times.. I always dream of a particular girl but ever since I have never met this girl I been dreaming of, the advice you been given in the article can help you find this girl and I also think I have to take note of the advice to see if it can as well help me to find mine too. I have to learn how to be conscious in my dreams so I can control my dreams by myself. However, we also have many things in common @nomad-magus. I find it extremely difficult to approach girls in public and I'm also a shy type.
Do take note though that I was reciting a dream from someone else. 🙂
Is this your art @jakir007?