I think you are a standup guy, who really cares about the happiness of someone you love. I think it would help if the someone who proposed was also super rich and never around. Seekingarrangments.com could be a great place for you to start, and any girl would be awe struck by the work it took to you find her a solid sugar daddy. You might even get a non-holiday blowie out of it, but don't say you heard it from me- don't need the girl tribe knowing I've been leaking secrets ;)