RE: WHAT factors decide/influence how many children you want to have?
I am overwhelmed by just reading this and I can only imagine the range of emotions you had to go while expressing it.
It's true that men have very little consideration for all the changes a woman's body goes through while giving birth. It is also just heartbreaking to hear when a mother dies during the process of delivering her baby.
No it is not worth having a child if you are always sick.
I can understand what you are trying to say here. It doesn't do any justice to the child also if the mother becomes so weak to take care of herself let alone the child.
I am not married yet and I have not seen life as long as you have but I do wonder from time to time what kind of parent I will be if I ever going to have children because it doesn't matter what kind of person you raise he/she will impact lives of many others.
I have personally witnessed the hardships a single mother has to go through even for raising a single child. Even after not only successful upbringing a child and paying for their tuition, marriage the woman is ridiculed and labelled selfish.
I admire and respect for what you have gone through and I sincerely hope everything in your life and your childrens' will turn out to be okay at the end.
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