for easy reference I will include here a few posts I have written which folk may find useful:

https://steemit.com/writing/@inquiringtimes/of-course-you-don-t-need-social-skills-to-be-successful-on-steemit

https://steemit.com/life/@inquiringtimes/if-you-want-honey-don-t-kick-over-the-bee-hive