What is your Excuse !

rehan12 (73)in #busy • 6 years ago

Excuse is probably the most annoying word heard if it is found in front of ,while if we make it, it does not have that much of an effect.If we define excuse in a bit different or easy way the answer would be “The lie that you tell yourself to make yourself feel better about justifying your lack of responsibility for your life.”

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A Qoute

He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else (Benjamin Franklin)

Furthermore ,when we get to the point of an adult, you being happy and taking charge of your own happiness is 100% up to you, but we don’t like that. As we don’t want that responsibility because it’s so much easier to blame someone else and use them as an excuse.It does happens to all our life at some point in our life !

To give an Example,

We all do know the man Nicholas James Vujicic .He is born in 4 December 1982 is a Serbian-Australian.He has more recognition as Christian evangelist and motivational speaker born with tetra-amelia syndrome, a rare disorder characterized by the absence of arms and legs. He is one of the seven known surviving individuals planet-wide who live with the syndrome.He is a living inspiration for us all.Read more

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One of the thing that we can agree upon is "Excuses are harmful because they prevent one from succeeding" !

Excuses does negate responsibility, and it is responsibility that makes human different from the rest of the animal kingdom. Unlike other animals, we are responsible not for what we are , but what we can become or what we can be able to do ,it is us that chooses the right or the wrong path !

Excuse is a curse for all of us ,the less it becomes the more effective our life gets!
It is only will power that can stop making excuses while here are some other things that can be done :