Now that is a whole different perspective that I’d failed to consider. Maybe my angst makes my kids feel more loved?! There are many types of love languages, and yes I think some people do enjoy that. Thank you for your honest and insightful comment. That really got me thinking this morning.

my parents fretting over me just irritates me (I love them. They are wonderful people. But their angst triggers my angst so I try and avoid it...and that’s whole other post...😉😂)