thank you @clumsysilverdad - I hope you will look into the Principles set forth in the Kybalion - they are the principles which underly Natural Law - which translate into the Golden Rule - but we need them broken down for us. Me personally, I can be such a coward - standing up for principle hurts when I piss people off and they don't like me as a result - but I am working on it. Being so civilized has conditioned us to be weak and spineless - at least me - I just had a situation where I could not compose my thoughts to the person's face and so I said it in an email and hurt her feelings- I want to get to the point where I can overcome my cowardice and say what I mean and mean what I say regardless of what people think about me...