I was bothered by two of my Ex-boyfriends – Dream interpretation

in #advice6 years ago

I am 18 years old and I have had a boyfriend for a year now; we have been a couple in the past but had a break for a year and a half. During that time, I had another boyfriend.

For the last two nights, I have had strange dreams. The first involved my former ex (the one during the break time) who had broken my heart. In this dream, I dreamed that he came to visit my house. My father was sleeping, and he begged me to be his girlfriend again. He had made a lot of noise and had woken up my father who got mad and told him to leave. Then my ex did a bit of a mess, went around the house, grabbed me and did not let go. The dream ended when I ran away from him and told him to leave me alone because I am in love with my current boyfriend.

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The second dream was about my first ex-boyfriend. He has broken my heart as well. In the dream, I saw him with his friend (they are always together in real life), and I was with my girlfriend. We went to hang out at an unfamiliar park with a river next to it. Sometime during the dream, I stayed alone with my ex and he said something silly. In return, I told him (for the first time) that I thought he was acting like a little child and that he really hurt me and that I would not allow him to do it again. He promised to change and that he would stop behaving like that. We reconciled, and the dream was over.

What do all these strange dreams mean? By the way, this is the only two guys who really broke my heart because they chose to end the relationships.


The dreams send a message of a closure.

As for the first, you probably have had doubts, which have lingered since the separation - would the guy be right for you? Have you missed your "one"? The dream comes to say: definitely not. He does not suit you. There is no spiritual connection between you two (your father is asleep). There was a harsh communication between you two, the relationship served its purpose and ended rightfully so.

In the second dream, you acted out a psychological closure. The dream tells that your relationship served your growth, you learned something about yourself and now you are wiser. It is wonderful that you stated your choices so clearly as they are heard, loud and clear, throughout your inner psychic world. Here, too, the guy is not your "one" and therefore if you have thoughts on the subject or doubts they have no place. Release them. The process of letting go is welcomed, occurs naturally and is good for you. You certainly live a healthy mental life, despite the broken heart, or two.


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You are truly sharing precious knowledge with us.
I will try this out with my dreams.

I wish you all joy and abundance.

Thanks for your feedback. I read your introduction post and will look forward to your future contributations and sharings. I'm sure you will have insightful posts. 👍

Thanks friend. I'm looking forward to our journey.

Beautiful interpretation......dreams send messages but the way you make them understand to everyone is awesome....you are great at this..

Thanks for the feedback. It's important for me to know whether my writings are understood, or not. This way I can fine tune the message. 👍

No believe me you write things very clear and simple , i guess everyone i able to understand it.and the way you make things up ...that really needs alot of creativity...n your are great in that..

by reading your interpretations one can learn how you interpret and relate different events
you presented it beautifully!
hopefully i will interpret my own dreams soon

Very interesting. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago, at the beggining I had so many dreams about him, then it stopped and after a while it came back again. Our relationship was poisenous but in my dreams we're a great couple, which affect the way I feel about him rn and its kinda sucks.
How can I send you anonymously my dreams? I got so many weird ones lately 😂

He is not the one that you meet in your new round of "great" dreams. It's more your soul level.
You are welcome to write here a contact info (fb?) and I'll PM there.

I'll send you a friend request rn :)

Spot on..
It seems like dreams of closure

For me, in your first dream it seems that you’re not really meant for each other and it will just bring you in trouble like he did mess up in your dream. He won’t be good for you. For the second one, I think the message of the dreams is that you forgave him despite of breaking your heart. And just be happy of both of your choices. Anyways it’s just my interpretation.

Forgiveness is very important as it allows the release of the heavy energy.
Good point.👍

Your right! Forgiving will let us continue to live without any fear or thoughts that will distort you.

Like your writing men @nomad-magus <3

Thank you👍🙂

I too thought in the first case there was no healthy connection between the two, and the relationship ended for good, in the second case they still cared about each other as its evident from above they sat in a park near the river, well a nice post, keep sharing stuff like this

Right interpretation, Your advice really impressed me. You are in the right way. This is the good advice for him.

you relate dreams with reality, that's an awesome experience of interpreting a dream, one should have a kind of talent like you...

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