Childhood is not long

The closeness of a child to a parent becomes a starting point that must be created and utilized. As a place to talk heart to heart, or a long discussion like a partner. Parents should not underestimate, especially the child's curiosity on many things.

Although it seems a trivial problem, it actually means a lot for your baby. By giving understanding with sincerity, one day children grow into a confident person.

I myself am a mother, trying to build and maintain closeness with children. Showing concern, by involving themselves in their world. Play badminton with a hero, or play snakes and ladders with a little girl.

Doing it with pleasure, as a manifestation of that sense of closeness. With one belief, the closeness that was built as early as possible the impact felt in the future.

So if you hear the whimper of children, do not be quick to scold father or mother. If you find a child crying hysterically, let the father and mother instead rebuke him. Children at the age of five need attention, they will look for ways as reasonable as they can.

Maybe the father had been in a condition, when attending a celebration event the child cried roared. Or maybe the mother has experienced, in the middle of watching a movie, the child asks to buy fruit soup. When in the middle of the trip, the baby asked to go to the bathroom.

For a moment it must be annoying, being in an uncomfortable situation. Sudden hassles, under the right conditions. But there is no other choice, except to intervene to deal with children who are in trouble.

The father and mother are super patient, the children's childhood is not long. Over time, physical closeness will fade sooner or later. Children will find their own world, choosing rather tenuous with the father and mother.

Which is usually where glendotan where, suddenly want a little distance. Usually where your father goes, the child will not be invited even if forced to. They prefer to play with friends, no longer tempted by the persuasion of buying favorite ice cream.

As a child ages, it is necessary to find a method to maintain that closeness. Stepping in your twenties (usually third grade), began to be uncomfortable hugged or caressed in public. They began to have their own arguments, over the choice of attitude they chose. They began to dare to make decisions, while learning to accept and undergo the consequences.

Parents must change, want to develop themselves and seek knowledge. Parents are required to adjust, to children who are starting to develop.
Not feel now my 8-year-old child has become a beautiful girl.

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