I am better than you

in #thoughts5 years ago (edited)

When I was very young, my parents owned a gallery in a small town, a gallery that was the only private gallery that could display works from the National Gallery if I remember correctly - I was very young. But, my home was much like a gallery too but almost exclusively of one artist, my father. He was a brilliant painter. Brilliant.

While I am not much of a painter myself, I do have a little bit of artistic talent and when viewing art, I always judge it on my own abilities using the, "I could do that if I wanted to" method. What I consider worthy art (not that I would necessarily buy or hang it) is if technically it is beyond my capabilities and much more importantly, whether the concept behind it is something I wouldn't have thought of myself.

Technical capabilities are less important than the conceptualization of thought into some kind of transmittable information. Art isn't the painting, it is the conversation between the painting and the viewer and where the discussion leads thoughts. Each viewer leaves thinking something unique to their mind. Art is quite an incredible process.

I am better than you

I am better than you at least at something. I don't know what that something might be for you as an individual, but line us up across a series of tasks and I am going to beat you. And, you are going to beat me, because you are probably better than me at some things too. I don't know what those things are either.

When it comes to Steem and the however many active accounts there are currently posting, it is likely that I am better than the average writer, but definitely not the best. However, I don't just leave because I am not the best at something because again, there is technique and delivery of concepts.

My process is wordy for most but it likely helps many who are able to labor through it to develop a better understanding of the things that are important to them, namely Steem. I write about other things too occasionally, but Steem is something we all have in common here and it is something I know relatively well, enjoy and like to observe.

Do I know the most about Steem? No, that is likely @gtg, but I am able to present some of it in a way that people similar to me and a little wider can understand to some degree without having to know how to code, something I cannot do at all other than the little bits of markdown I learned for Steem. I can justify my own text. I also rarely bitch about Steem itself and prefer to take a positive look at the platform because, I am not much of an internet whiner. If I wasn't on Steem, you could probably find me... sitting on my couch or at the gym.

But, me likely being better than you at writing or even potentially knowing more than you about Steem, doesn't mean others shouldn't speak about Steem because, that is the way we learn. Imagine if everyone stopped doing something because someone else is better than them; there'd be one painter, one race car driver, one husband? - poor guy.

And then, just like artwork hanging in a gallery, while my "better" writing might suit some, it might be completely out of touch with others and someone who is technically inferior, could bring a lot of color and attraction to the audience - like @meesterboom for example - some people like great writing, some people like his. Who am I to judge...

But, this is the thing with it for at least me, I like art that makes me feel like the person cared about what they were doing while they did it, that it was important to them in the moment and they put effort into expressing themselves. The calculating type that is trying too hard to appeal to the audience has never sat well with me with the obvious scream of attention seeking behavior asking to be looked at - but when that is done artfully and especially with humor and wit - we get an artist like no other, @nonameslefttouse. Who in two of his many former lives was once an exotic eastern princess and Wayne Gretsky. Yes, Wayne is still alive - but Nonames has left the body.

What I wonder though is how many people actually explore how good they can be at something and whether they could actually be a fair bit better than most other people. And then, how many believe they are better but never really put it to the test.

I am pretty sure that someone could easily out-write my abilities - for a short period of time - but I have been doing this consistently for years now. Ups, Downs, HardForks, ClusterForks, flags, downvotes, bidbots, circlejerks and all the drama a small town can muster, I have continued on. That might be my skill - resilience. Or perhaps it is a driver of my art and while some people are inspired by a sunset, I am inspired by a bunch of crazy people who believe in magical tokens.

I dunno, but I do think that with the growing use cases on Steem, more people will be able to experiment and play and perhaps one day, find an art form that suits them and can be used to leverage a little Steem or some other token from the system - perhaps even enough to say when someone asks - "I am an artist"

Or a blogger, a streamer, a gamer, a podcaster, a writer, musician or the least artistic of all - a developer

If you had the option to spend your life performing your art, what would it be and, why aren't you working toward spending more time doing that?

Taraz
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As brilliant artist as my dad was, I am better at drawing faces than he ever could.

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I'm wondering, if there will come a time when one can say, I am a Steemian as it would be their profession?

Potentially since "He's a Youtuber" seems common enough these days. 5 years? 10? 2?

5 years seems possible.

One way to speed up this process would be to start calling ourselves this way.

But maybe "I'm a crypto blogger" wouldn't sound too outlandish even today.

My bet 7+ years.
I'm here for a while, but yet dont imagine calling myself that way.
I'm crypto addicted, BTW

The future seems bright!

I'm sure there's someone out there who's better than me at being able to find the words after receiving such a fine compliment.

A well deserved compliment.

Does it matter how much better you are than other people as long as you enjoy what you're doing? I know there's a whole pile of people who are much, much better than me at pretty much everything I'm doing (I hang out on ArtStation x_x). I used to use that as the motivator to git gud (specially as there was a time I wanted to work in vfx) and at one stage I even had a long list of why my anim project is going to be a failure but then I got to a stage where I simply do not care because my inability to meet my own ridiculous standards is stressful enough XD

I always tell the kids that there's always someone better and someone worse so basically don't stress if they don't make the badge test or get a medal in the comp as in the end the only important thing is to do better than themselves.

Development is an art. There's something pretty in an elegant algorithm and nicely formatted code XP

why aren't you working toward spending more time doing that?

How do you know I'm not? ;D

Does it matter how much better you are than other people as long as you enjoy what you're doing?

Not at all.

Development is an art. There's something pretty in an elegant algorithm and nicely formatted code XP

beauty and art is everywhere. I don't know a skill that isn't affected by it.

How do you know I'm not? ;D

That is between you and what you do. :)

I have always been fascinated by the psychology of self-esteem.

I personally think I'm better than most :-) It's the only way I can live with myself :-)

I do realize that some are better than me I just choose to ignore that somewhere in a deep dark recess of my mind.

What I find interesting though, is that I am only really attracted to others who also think they are better than me. I have less interest in those who think they are crap. They just don't seem to have a lot to offer so I don't usually go there. I don't want to waste time on someone who thinks they are crap. I am intrigued by someone who thinks they are better. I want to know if it is true. Then I convince myself it's not. Not fair way to treat others I know, but is how I roll. Of course I don't let others know this, but it is how I operate for the most part (what they don't know won't hurt them).

Everyone should think they are the best deep down. Rationally you know you are not, but emotionally it allows you to have something to offer. Others are attracted to it. I think.

If I am wrong...don't tell me :-)

I have less interest in those who think they are crap.

I think this is common but many try to roll with the idea of "sympathy sex"

Everyone should think they are the best deep down. Rationally you know you are not, but emotionally it allows you to have something to offer. Others are attracted to it. I think.

I think at least in some aspects, we have to at least entertain the idea that we are okay at something rather than consistently having a self-defeating attitude.

Confidence is attractive, as is skill to back it up.

Technically inferior, linguistically superior...

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Good Luck and keep up the Great Work on Steemit!

it mean you passed your childhood with art...

f you allow me, your publication has some truth, in fact, I criticize steemit but I prefer to reserve it, if you ask someone from the community, what is steemit? Surely that person will respond, which is a social network that pays you for publishing quality content and for voting quality publications.

Now, that is steemit quality. If you enter the trends section, you will find this concept, but sometimes there are publications that in my opinion, are overrated, you can observe flageo, but this does not attract the attention of the felines, because perhaps there is a large marine mammal behind.

I have seen artists who, in my opinion, are very good, but their publications do not receive the recognition of the community, I think Steemit lost the essence a long time ago.

I would like to appreciate your father's paintings, I encourage you to share them, and maybe you want to throw some strokes to the paper, I do not consider myself an artist, but I paint watercolors to drain the worries of the day.

By the way, I painted a lily the day before yesterday, similar to your photo, I would love for you to make a critique. I leave the link.

https://steemit.com/spanish/@theonlyway/considere-los-lirios-del-campo-or-acuarelas

Thanks for sharing.

And you Eve, are one of my fave artists on here friend! Your photography is always so natural!

I think this one is for you @eveuncovered :*

I apologize! I didn't realize it was a resteem <3

:*

It is okay, I figured. =)

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