Offer.

Before you conclude that your spouse resents or neglects you, first ask yourself "what can i offer". Almost everyone has had their fair share of failed relationships and heartbreaks. Digging deep, i found out most women think giving their man all type of styles on bed guarantees a perfect and successful relationship. Don't get me wrong, i ain't disputing the fact that sex is one of the spiciest part of a relationship but then apart from SEX what else can you give your man.

Are you the type who loves to spend without saving or investing? Like it or not men love women who has nice business ideas. Nobody is saying you shouldn't hangout or have a good time but if you're the type of woman who care just about the present and not think of investing for the future, then you have nothing to offer.

Are you the type of woman who is lazy? Some women believe in having a house maid because they know nothing about cleaning. A man loves women who can manage their time with work and doing house chores too. You can't depend on a maid to make your man's food and then blame him later for falling for your maid.

Are you the type of woman who leave when your man is down? Were you there for him when he had nothing. Women today do not love genuiely, they prefer a man who will always pay for their bills and when he's down. Money is what most girls want in a relationship, and the moment their man finds out and gets a new girl, they go about telling people "He dumped me". You should respect your man no matter what the sotuation with him is so he would inturn hold you high and reciprocate the respect you show him.

Are you the type who is not industrious? Men loves industrious people. When you're independent and care less about asking money from your man for every little thing from making your hair, fixing your lashes/nails and changing your wardrobe. Yeah he's your man but not your father. You can't keep asking every little thing from him. Why not ask for capital to fund your business idea instead of depending on him for your every need. Do something to earn your own cash, trust me a matured man will respect you.

Do you pray together with him? Some men dont pray that much but it should be up to you to change that by praying with him fervently. Even when things are better, you still need to hold hands with him and pray.

With all humility, i'm a helpmate. I date for what i feel and not for the resources of a man. A girl who cannot assist her man financially when he's broke but is willing to collect from him all the time when he's financially bouyant definitely has nothing to offer. Greed from the part of some girls has led to so many failed relationships in our society today.

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