When I get hurt

Hello everyone, My name is Afikun Nahar & my Age is 29years. I am a pharmacist. & I am from Bangladesh. I have been on steemit for 3 months.

You may wonder, why do I always post about women, rape, sexual harassment? Is this woman crazy? What a damn word - rape! No need to say it again and again.

I am unmarried and live alone. I always get hurt. I get hurt, when I read the newspaper, to watch the TV etc. It is very painful when I open the pages of the newspaper and see 82 percent of the married women in the country are victims of torture. Increasing the number of rape in the country, like increasing threshold production rule. This rape, gang rape, rape of women, rape, sexual assault, molestation, murder after the rape, in the bus, truck, microbus, home, outside, in the light, in the dark, are being opened in public. It is mentioned that from 2008 to 2016, there were 4,304 women in rape in eight years. And 740 of them were murdered after rape.

Whether you are a woman or a man, you have had experience of sexual abuse. At the moment you are reading poetry, or listening to music, at the moment, for the benefit of rape, a five-year-old girl is being cut off. A pregnant woman's body is being shredded. A four-year-old child is trying to rape a man.

Do you have any guesses of their suffering? Imagine that you are putting your food in your mouth without hesitation by lying on your two cheeks. Can you think of humiliation? Now imagine how a child is suffering from an adult male giving a penis to his or her vagina. It is, at this moment, in some child's life. Will you be silent because the child is not yours? You think there is no possibility of this happening in your life. You do not change anything by talking about these things, or you think it's useless to talk about them. Well, do you have a girl? No? younger sister? Not even that? Cousin sister? There is someone whom you love, that you want to be safe. There is a rude rape in the world, do you understand that your favorite girl is not safe? Successful or not, I'm trying to change this world somewhat.

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I get hurt, when I opened the television, I saw the gender paradigm of the men & women. There is always a continuation of advertising, movie, drama and various events, among men and women, about all the man-made, patriarchal, new-minded, stupid, productive ideas. Where it is shown that if a woman is not fair, she does not get married, she does not get a job. She needs beauty only.

I get hurt, when my near relative showed me, two children of her daughter, the compassionate asked me, "Do not you want to take two children who are in a union with a married woman", then my terrible pain is to keep the tears in the face down in my mouth

My mom does not sleep at night. Because of my wedding thoughts. I am not getting married that's why she is very sad. It hurts me to see her suffer. The more I absorb, the more she gets worried. It hurts me to get them suffering because my wish does not match them. In this society a woman has to be married, she will have to give birth to a child. Whether or not the girl wants it or not.

I have more trouble when I see some people talk about women's emancipation, but they are confused by the release of the woman's freedom or freedom. Seeing them, it is also difficult to grieve

I have heard a lot of people talking about working women, girls just do the job to buy their dress, to buy their lipstick, and to spend in the parlor. Brother, how many girls do you know? There will now be many daughters in the country who are taking charge of their families and in case they are the sole earners of the family. You do not say this girl. If you say that the credit of your work will be divided into one.

I am sorry if someone is hurt in my words. But I think now all the women & men demanded time to move on one side. Thinking, why come? You can also be a victim. May your dear ones.