Spending Time Alone Is Also One Of The Basic Needs
Being an adult is difficult. Everywhere with friends is considered to have no position. But spending a lot of time alone is automatically considered deserted. This is very difficult.
Though spending time alone can be one of our basic needs. Moment with yourself, may make our quality better. And people who often see moments passing by themselves whether shopping, in cafes, watching movies, and even traveling, do not have to have fewer friends than they always look crowded everywhere.
There are times when you have to make big decisions. Going on your own will be a lucrative exercise.
In our lives there will be many intersections. Many decisions must be taken and the risks that lie behind them. And often the decision can not be represented, inevitably you decide. Well, spending time alone gives you time to practice. Without anyone else beside you, inevitably you have to make your own decisions.
The opinions of people you know are usually more worrying. Alone makes you more honest about many things.
Which one are you more worried about, the opinions of people we know or the opinions of people we meet once and then we forget? Maybe the first one weighs more on the mind. Because of that unconsciously we often make ourselves in accordance with the expectations of others.
For example, watching movies with friends. You will be noisy about the clothes, so your friends will not regret asking you, even if you feel uncomfortable. By trying for a moment alone, you will learn to be more honest with everything and learn to ignore people's conversation.
That alone makes you think more effectively. Much can be done because it does not have to go through the debate.
How many vacation plans with your friends are finally realized? Or is it mostly just a discourse because there is no agreement about time, place, and many other things? Crowds are fun, but there's a lot of interest to be accommodated. This is sometimes time consuming and often not the case. If you go alone, everything becomes easier, because of one interest you think. That way, many things you can finally do.
The self is a good time to test yourself. Maybe a lot of your potential will be explored here.
Getting out of the comfort zone is not easy. But it needs to be done to see how much potential we have. Therefore, you need your own time. Time to see your own challenges. That way, you can explore yourself, and discover potentially unexplored possibilities. In the end you will smile and say "Oh, I can also be like this".
Well, here you just need confidence. One of them is the main appearance, which makes you remove the fear in the mind that sometimes does not make sense. Therefore, you must be ready to be a partner for yourself and to wade through your days, and explore your own potential.
Done...!!
For an uncomfortably long time, I allowed myself to believe that been seen alone in public was a sign of how incapable I was of making friends. After reading your blog, that is about to change as I'll start using my alone time to re-invest in my sense of self rather than imagining up what people would think of my been alone at the smallest instant. Great write youngky. Thank you for enlightening.