THE FAMILY

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The family is the primary social gathering of learning of an individual. At first, the human mind is blank as he came into existence but with time humans starts to learn basic things as early as a toddler to infancy, childhood, teenage age and finally adulthood. The primary and basic characters we, as humans possess, is base on our family. If a child grows up in a family where the conversation is done in a cool and gentle like manner even though they may be differences between parties having the conversation such a child will surely carry such trait into adulthood. Also, if a child is brought up in a family where yelling is the way they communicate such a child is so likely of carrying the trait of yelling to adulthood.

Many traits observed in individuals such as stubborn, carefree, kind, emotional, caring/uncaring is base on the type of family they belong to. I was brought in a family that we are not fond of mingling that much with our neighbours except daily greetings and that's something in me till date. I could have said me being introverted maybe the reason why I don't love mingling with neighbours but I can't because my extroverted brother also shares the same trait.

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Family bond together. Family sticks with each other no matter what. "They do say blood is thicker than water but love is thicker than blood". And when it comes to "the family" it's not just the blood but the love they have for each other. Family at times do get on each other's backsides, get into a fight but when a member of their's is in need they are always there. They are the resort for comfort and rescue when it seems all is lost.

Words from family do matter a lot. A word of encouragement from a family can make an individual also a bad word from a family can mar an individual.
The words our family members speak to us get more to us than our friends and others so also are what we say to them. I hold to a notion which is "never hurt a family". One being hurt by friends and other folks can easily be gotten over and healed than a family, at times one may not be able to heal and if healed there is a high probability of the scar remaining.

The family is not only by blood relationship or marriage. The family is by the heart. It's by the love that is being felt in the heart. At times we come across people that are just friends at first but with time we begin to share a strong bond with them and the love get stronger, such people can't be considered as friends anymore but a family.
I'm proud to be from a family that is united and peaceful. I will urge everyone who is not at peace with his/her family to try to make peace with them.
The family is a comfort zone for all and the factory where individuals with various traits and characters are being made to the society.

Thanks for reading. I remain @prechyrukky