BTW, I forgot to respond to your other part about relationships. I hear you re women, and my pet peeve is hearing someone refer to me as 'a good man'. I don't know why but it seems so patronizing and dismissive but I'm sure that's just me. As for long relationships, I think it's simple - don't leave. Yeah...simple, basic and probably trite, but that's all I've got, Arthur on that :)