Living With A Lack Of Direction

in #writing6 years ago

If you never set any goals for yourself, then you can't get let down by failing to achieve them.

However, if you never get around to establishing any goals for yourself to try and reach, you're sacrificing the potential for growth and you might never find out what you are truly capable of.

Researchers who have previously investigated the effect of regret in the past, suggest that failing to explore missed opportunities can be one of the most pressing regrets that many hold at the end of their lives.

You don't want to get decades down the road, having allowed many years pass, filling you with regret because you only wish that you had branched out in some new way, tried something new, or explored a different approach.

If we take a chance at trying something new and we make a fool of ourselves, the regret potentially associated with that is less profound then that which is associated to regrets over chances we never found the courage to explore.

Research suggests that people overwhelmingly regret the things that they didn't do, as opposed to feeling regret for the things that they did.

You might have jumped to explore some new opportunity at one point in your life, only to feel like you've crashed and failed. But sometimes failure can be an invaluable learning experience.

When we set out to establish goals for ourselves to try and reach, there is a certain amount of risk involved and the fear that comes along with that is different for everyone. For some who have a poor self image, they might not feel like they deserve to have certain things in their life, and this might keep them from trying to set higher goals for themselves to achieve. If we fail to keep trying to move forward with setting goals for our lives however, it can stunt the probability of us achieving a higher potential.

By setting small or large goals for our lives we can effectively transform it for the better, changing our lives drastically and enabling ourselves to accomplish more. You might even surprise yourself at what you are truly capable of.

You might feel like you don't have the time to try and achieve your goals, whatever they may be, but we all have the same amount of time in a day. The time will pass anyways and why not make the most of it by trying to invest it toward trying to achieve better for yourself, your loved ones, and others.

A fear of the time that it might take to achieve the goal shouldn't be enough to sway us from getting started, it's never too late to begin working toward a better life or toward a new vision that we might want to see realized.

An important step toward achieving any goal in our lives is to have a clear vision for what it is that we want. Do you want to see yourself get out of debt? Do you want to start your own company? Get rid of 20lbs? Get a new job? Make new friends? Travel worldwide? Volunteer for a cause that's important to you? Research indicates that setting goals for ourselves has the potential to drastically improve our chances of success and by setting both small and large goals to work toward, it helps provide a clear direction, helps facilitate planning, can help to inspire, and guide our performance in trying to reach the overall objective.

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A recipe of success does requires the spice of failure. And courage is probably the fire that makes the food possible.

Lets not forget that 'fear' was the hunger behind it all.....

Thanks for the reminder and encouragement! I am going to launch the project that I've been thinking about and working on for months. I would regret not trying.

Definitely True...
I needed that reminder to get out there and make things happen;
you'll always feel better that you tried..

@doitvoluntarily, Absolutely true and that is because, in my opinion most of the people want to live in the Comfort Zone but unfortunately they don't know that this comfort zone will going to hurt their future.

Many times we choose an path which is not ours and by that i mean, we choose an path for which we don't have any interest or any passion and in that case in future we will going to Regret.

So, whenever opportunity knocks our doors we have to analyse these opportunities and then we have to take the decisions because many people take decisions in hurry.

We have to understand one more point and that is, never force towards particular path because in that way we will going to increase the burden upon us.

Wishing you an great day and stay blessed. 🙂

This is one of those pieces i wish i could follow.
I wish i could set goals.

But, all the goals i wish to achieve are either very mundane or smack in the area of the "impossible".

Goal 1. Have enough money to keep roof over head.
Goal 2. Provide free energy to everyone on the planet.

The in between goals have no pull or drive for me.
Although i work hard, every day for goal "2", it is not something i can road-map or plot little steps towards.

At least with Goal 1, there is cryptos, and if they go anywhere, i will have enough to fulfil goal 1 without much more effort.

I would like that feeling of making headway, of getting somewhere. Of ticking off the things on a check-list. But, i do not have anything in that realm.

Sadly people do not set goals. Do self-analysis or have a career. Financial personal or moral compass. They are without Direction that is why they are sheeple. If they did said Kohl's they would be self-made people. Thanks for sharing

This is very true, knowing what we want, setting goals and making the sacrifice to carry them out is very important to get what we want in life
excellent post thank you very much for sharing this material
I wish you a great day

There is a lot of fear and conditioning that needs to be removed in some people before they can take the leap. It's not that they would not like to try something else or have not actually set such goals. But lets say for example needing to return to study to change career, but they may believe they are too old to do this, they have not taken an exam in over 30 years, they will fail etc. Or they want to move from full time work into part time work so they can start up a business on the side and make steps that way, but the current job wont allow it, so you are faced with having to find another job which is scary, you've got bills coming through the letter box almost daily reminding you that you need a secure income to make sure your children have a roof over their head, and 'you are not good enough' is constantly reinforced into our psyche's via social media, marketing, and entertainment. You need to be slimmer, you need to be happier, you need to wear make up, you need to be more muscly, you need our help because you are not good enough. The comment above regarding people being sheeple is not as black and white as that, there are some yes, but there are much more people trapped in fear and wanting to change things i think. We're successfully conditioned into thinking we can't make it.

Setting goals and making plans is something vital for us as humans, @doitvoluntarily. This can help us prioritize and put things in our life in order.

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