love can make a person fall apart in everything

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love, yes love comes unexpectedly. and love is embedded in the deepest heart. there are 2 things that make someone love. the first, fall in love at first sight. when he sees a woman or man who is in accordance with his wishes, then there will be love. the second, love due to affection. that is, because it has been a long time running a relationship, then love will also arise.

yes that's how love arises. but it's better if you don't love your boyfriend too much, before you can marry him. when you have married him, then love him sincerely and perfectly. but before you can marry him, don't love him too much. because you don't know whether your partner is truly loyal to you. it's likely he left you one day. it can happen.

when disappointment comes, of course you will be very sad. maybe you will feel brokenness in your heart. and not a few people who experience mental collapse when he left his girlfriend. and even killed himself.

It doesn't matter if you love your boyfriend too much before marrying him. but if he leaves you, you don't drag on your sadness. don't make yourself broken.