The story is so interesting. My own advice will be for the wife to accept the court wedding. What has happened as happened. She should think of her children as well as the her family which made her to accept to give birth to her first baby inside wedlock. Though, the husband didn't behave well at all but she should go ahead with the wedding since she had all her children with the man in question. Unless she has another affair outside or the man has another person he is dating.