Which one do you hate most?

in #vn2 years ago

Hello Vietnamese community!
I wasn't writing for long time on Steemit, because I just started to work. So it's difficult to find time for Steemit when I'm busy that much. But I hope there will be days that I will write more on Steemit.

Today I want to ask you a question. Which one do you hate?

  1. People who say they do everything for you, but not doing it for you in real. They're telling you to make you do their job, not for learning it.

  2. People who say bad things to you even you did everything for themselves. And they keep telling bad things to you and make you not want to do that job anymore.

I'm wondering your answers, please write your ideas on comments.


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Hi @hungrybanana
It's been a long time since I saw you. Welcome back.
Now, I will let you know my opinion.
I hate the first thing, because obviously such people are a scammer, they are not good and have no credibility.
The second thing for me is normal. Anyway, they may have a different perspective with me, and through the bad things they say I can know more, maybe they are right and I need to look back. If I hated the second one, maybe I had to hate the whole world. LOL

Hahah, it was good point.
Thank you for sharing your opinions, I'm happy to hear it.

Obviously both! But second one sounds more serious for me. After long day at work I’m kinda lazy to answer! Lol

Both are bad, aren't they?

  1. I see this as manipulation and taking advantage of someone
  2. Are they saying bad things to you? Or are they saying bad things about you to other people? If they say bad things about you to others then it is the same as #1. If they say bad things to you directly, then it's ingratitude.

I'd probably dislike #1 more than #2. With #2 you might get upset, angry but at least you know the person and if you continue to do things for them then it is up to you or maybe you still do things for them because you know that it is the right thing to do regardless of how they behave.

With #1, you are getting manipulated, they take advantage of you without you knowing, they hide their real intention from you, others might know but not you. Then when you discover it, you feel stupid. It might have been happening for a very long time without you knowing.

I meant "they say bad things to you, not to others even if you do good things for them." Thank you for sharing your opinions.

tôi nghĩ rằng cả 2 đều sai. nhưng trong thâm tâm tôi thấy, khi đã trải qua những việc này thì chúng ta sẽ bản lĩnh hơn và chúng ta sẽ trở lên mạnh mẽ . Hãy là 1 con người trung lập vì cuộc sống đôi khi là thế

I think you're right. If something doesn't kill us, it will make us stronger!

I think you're right. If
Something doesn't kill us, it
Will make us stronger!

                 - hungrybanana


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I hate both of them. They just want to recieve benefit from the other. For me, sharing help our joy or knowleage was multiplied multiple times

Thank you for your comment. Which one do you think is worse?

I think the first one. Because It's not easy to realize what they are thinking