man i feel your pain I'm pretty much in your situation with no job and i got 3 kids and a girl to take care of. And I cant rely on steemit as new as I am. I know my votes doesn't count for much yet but ill still upvote you. But you just got to do the best of what you got ;) start building your steem and one day you be chillin with a drink at the beach waving your finger at your old boss ;) God luck to you and your family. Love from Norway