One thing that really pisses me off is when people post those memes or whatever calling anti-vacc people stupid and ill-informed and perpetrators of spreading outbreaks and all that other stuff designed to belittle and shame those who have actually done research and made perfectly informed decisions.

We certainly aren't the sheeple.
I don't mind people doing their own thing IF they've done their research and have come to an informed decision AND don't go around sneering at those who have made different choices.

Just look at this list of scheduled immunisations:
https://www.health.govt.nz/our-work/preventative-health-wellness/immunisation/new-zealand-immunisation-schedule

Seriously, why is someone who has vaccinated their child who is supposedly now immune from an outbreak, then so freaked out about said outbreak? What should it matter if they come into contact with a non-vaccinated child?