Wonderful. I would agree, it takes two people to really do this level of work. We often need that mirror to reflect back so that we can really 'see'. That is what the 40 people in the room did for me when I was going through my recovery. The probing questions were VERY uncomfortable, but necissary and for that I am forever grateful. My wife and I now do that for one another and we don't view it as fighting but rather tough love to help the other work through something. It is a beautiful and loving gesture, though it can be uncomfortable. But we don't take it personally and instead allow that energy to flow so that we can move through it. I'm not familiar with Vipassana meditation, but it sounds wonderful. Thank you for sharing.