There is a lot of broken people out there who all have some or all of these same characteristics. We cannot fix them. But by standing our ground with firm boundaries, integrity and a willingness to confront the behaviours peacefully, we can be a catalyst for change. But it takes courage, strength, awareness and willingness to walk that path.
And sometimes we have to realise that no matter how firm we stand in the boundaries, the abuser and narcissist won't (or can't) change.
Sometimes we have to just walk away and pray that they find healing. Sometimes they don't make it. Other times they do. It is a painful process to witness and experience!
Walking away is difficult, but it is the best thing that can happen for both the abuser and the enabler. I am walking. We will see how things progress. I always pray for healing. We all need it, and we are all abusers at some times. It is painful to realize that. That is when we learn to forgive ourselves, reach out with a sincere apology if it is appropriate, and move on.
Well said. My thoughts and prayers go out to both of you. I know that you know that! <3
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