Aww, I also consider myself a control freak, although I think I've gotten much better about it. And I was raised by one, as well! I can tell you that you're on the right track. I was the daughter in your story and I remember countless, frustrating times when I just wanted to be able to explore how to do something on my own. Even to this day, it is still the same, and still as frustrating!! So, as hard as it may be to watch your daughter do something in the completely wrong and inefficient way - just let her. You'll both be better off for it! :D