RE: Until we get it, we just don't get it... truth takes time, I learned that reality
Thank you Kris. Well said, but it leads me to ponder what led you to write it. I can well imagine a handful of reasons, but instead I will simply ask, are you doing OK? I know how difficult the pursuit of truth can be. Perhaps not as well as you. Perhaps reading this has surfaced feelings in myself I am projecting onto you. Still the question is valid. Is the weight of the pursuit of truth and explaining it to others especially difficult for you right now?
If two people are not using the same definition or meaning for a word, their foundation for mutual understanding is already misaligned and off course.
I recently heard a perfect illustration of such miscommunication. Two very good friends who haven't talked in awhile met to catch up. We'll call them Bob and Tom. After the typical pleasantries and small talk Tom asked Bob, genuinely and sincerely, Are you doing OK? Bob replied, actually no, I'm rather blue. Tom said, Did I hear you right, you said blue? Bob replied, Yes that's right. Tom said, I don't know what you're talking about Bob, you look perfectly normal to me, and I've never seen you blue. The exchange went back and forth becoming emotional and the pitch in their voices reflected it. Bob said, after 5 years of friendship and you still didn't "get" it. And with that Bob turned and departed.
Tom was using the definition of the word as a literal color, whereas Bob was using it as a metaphor for his mood.
I began this reply thinking of that example, and then I stopped as I began to think about what might have led you to write the article. In the process I had to ask myself the same question. The honest answer is the article caused me to reflect on my own struggle to seek truth which has been with me my entire life. It hasn't been easy, and being single at this time of year set the context for feelings of sadness because I haven't been as effective in expressing the truth I have learned to others and the pain the struggle has caused at times.
My time here is not done, and there are more opportunities ahead to do better, to continue the learning process and to share what I've learned with others. I also now realize I have been thinking of one specific way I can and will do that for a few weeks now, and I'm actually looking forward to putting that plan into action.
Thanks for the great feedback again. It is indeed a struggle. We all struggle in life. Truth is a basic foundation for living. So we all struggle to in life towards understanding more about how to navigate reality, whether actively or passively.
I recently wrote in Our Universal Duty and Privilege:
Not convinced of how important truth is? Think about someone lying to you, being dishonest, or betraying you. How important is that in your life? Truth is the foundation for everything.
If truth didn't matter, trust in others and loyalty towards others wouldn't be broken by betrayal, dishonesty, lying, etc. These are subconscious axiomatic intuitive non-reflective understanding we operate by in life, but it can be consciously recognized and seen. Truth is at the foundation of everything. Truth is a synonym for reality/existence. We live in reality, so we live in truth. Being able to see it, describe it, explain it, verify it... is another issue ;)
So well said, yet again. But are you avoiding my sincere question? Even as I discovered a measure of projection it is still validly and sincerely asked, are you doing OK?
Oh, hehe, yeah I'm always fine. ;)
Always? hehe! "Fine" ? I asked if OK... Fine = OK = ? I believe my question was answered, I'll accept it as such. Good, I'm glad to hear it!
LOL, yet another example of how definitions need to be matched.
"OK, alright, fine", I'm always there unless a serious problem hehe. It's just whatever, life.