good advice @miguelarocha, we never understand others if we don't communicate with them openly, I was engaging with my dear wife now for 7 years and maintain the long distance relationship a long that time and finally got married 3 years ago, maybe because that LDR so when we got married, sometimes we have a silent war as an expression of a fight..LOL, but we never leave each other side because we need each other. if you have a problem with your beloved one, the best thing to do is keep your respect on her/ him as human.. so you wouldn't dare to hurt each other. thanks to @rembertomarsada who has featured you in his entry post to the #payitforward contest this week