Indeed children should not be raised as helpless. But they cannot be trusted with everything. IF something works on a small scale it will most likely work on a grander scale. Same with children. entrusting them in small things will give them the experience and build the trust in relationships that will prepare them for more responsibility. Thanks @tarazkp
Introducing small things early means they can tackle larger things earlier also. Some people coddle their children until they leave home - and often beyond.